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Thursday, May 26, 2011

The Bengi(o)sophy Initiative... a phase of true modernization

The BEngi (o) sophy Initiative is an author-preneural, education-based and a futuristic state-of-the-art enterprise that brings to the spotlight the advent of an eventual come-to-stay recognition,Engi(o)sophy_a phase of true modernization .

At this point, succinct assertions to establish an easy-to-understand recognition of the all-in-one Engi (o) sophy are undoubtedly essential.

Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.

Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.

Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.
As earlier mentioned, the BEngi (o) sophy Initiative, under the watchful eyes of its vibrant and dynamic pioneer, Mr. Ben, is a three-faced enterprise-author-preneural, education-based and futuristic state-of-the-art to specially enlighten people, irrespective of background, race, belief and status on its importance.


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Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? (introduction and chapter sample)

Introduction

The classic, Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? Is an interest that focuses on what make the issues of sex responsible for demise in relationships, estranged and divorced marital status by investigating the apparently considered trivial yardsticks and proffers rightly faithfulness approach to individuals who are in various relationships or married.

It is a must-read, must-have and must-keep work piece that has points, analogous to chapters, the trivialized yardsticks. The points are in the form of questions, striking phrases, and profound expressions. The points include the following:

Point1: How many times have you engaged in sex before marriage?

Point2: How many relationships have you been in, what kind of relationships were they and what led to the `break-ups'?

Point 3: In The relationship you are in presently, do you still have any crush on any you have dated? Are you secretly involved in any illicit affair with any of them, despite your current relationship?

Point 4: If you are married or in a relationship, would you compromise the faithfulness in the institution you are in, if given a tempting but favourable situation such that no one would know what really happened until the world ends?

Point 5: Men, would you be faithful to your wives or wives-to-be, despite ageing physical appearance and chose to ignore `sizzling' attractive young women?

Point6: The only physically sacred possession of a woman is her virginity…

Point 7: Women, would you still uphold faithfulness to your husbands or husbands to-be, despite infidelity on their part or their not being able to perform?

Point 8: The natural law of sowing and reaping is real.

Point 9: The best time to appreciating sexual faithfulness is marriage…

The points mentioned are seemingly seen as trivial yardsticks. The (sincere) answers and follow-up of point 9 will respectively determine whether or not an individual is faithful and level of one's faithfulness.

If you really want to swim through the water of a successful relationship and marriage completely, then, you must be ready to get thoroughly soaked in the complete questioning and sincerity-based answers to questions that appeal to you.

Point One
At this juncture, it is important to assert this: in a relationship or marriage, there are two virtues that bind individuals together; love and sex. The former is a product of heartfelt affection reflected as the outward value placed on by both parties while the latter is genuinely an expression (in form of direct physical contact) of the value placed by both parties.

Point 1 is a questionnaire that inquires into the sexual fidelity of an individual. It could be you! However, we take individual A as case study. Individual A could be a male or female. The question is asked: `individual A, How many times did you engage in sex before this time'; marriage? You will be amazed at the likely responses you would get. Individual A may not answer, believing you want to infringe on his or her privacy. Individual A would likely give you a questionable numeric figure, taking your question with levity. Interestingly, Individual A may respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you!

If sex is an engaged activity, should it been seen as an off-the-record event, documented, kept as secret for a while (but think of this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or a thing to be remembered when you are in your grave!?

If you want it to be kept as secret for a while, t hen think of the question asked. The person you had it with could decide to unveil to his or her world what really happened. In time, this it may bring implications. Remember, the wall has ears.

If it should be remembered when you are in your grave, what an exclamation it is. No one to share this `burden' with? Frankly, you are in a world of your own.

If it is worth documenting (and remembering), then you should be congratulated! You are about exercising empirical knowledge on individuals (the wise ones; enabling them learn what can vaguely be thought or taught.

A number of times individual A had engaged in sex before the `time' or marriage is by number of fathomable, provided there is an up-to-date record or documentation. Awkward, isn't it? Take a cue from this:

A serious-minded businessman keeps records of his daily transactions or business activities. No matter his schedule and volume of transaction, he knows the essence of keeping records and documenting them for future references. Otherwise, he is considered an irresponsible individual who does not know the worth of what he is doing and is in the business just to dilly-ally his time. Similarly, keeping records of your sex activities will none or the other define your sex disposition (one of the determinants of your sexual fidelity), if not now but in future.

Unfortunately, many individuals are guilty of this. It can be inferred form the first paragraph that individuals are so `bonded' to multiple sex partners that they can rarely remember the exact number of people they had `slept with' before marriage. This probably accounts for their negligence in record keeping. Hence, they are arguably seen as irresponsible and unfaithful. Come to think of it, if you cannot in concrete terms assert the number of times you had engaged in sex before marriage, what makes your sex life different from that of a whore or sex maniac? The following are question-based analysis that `digs' into the number of times Individual A had had sex. In fact, they provide clues to enable the individual remember (and subsequently keep records of his or her activity) this engagement.

1.

When did you loose your virginity?
2.

How was the feeling?
3.

Did you continue to have this `feel'?
4.

Have you engaged in a one-night stand or for-the-moment sex before?
5.

How comfortable do you feel letting people know about your escapades? Does anyone know about your different sex affairs?
6.

For how long can you stay without having sex? If the timing is exceeded, can you afford to `do it' with anyone you come across?
7.

If you see the person responsible for your virginity loss, how do you sincerely see the individual?

The sincerity-driven answers given by you will determine, in a way, whether or not you are worth sexually being faithful to. It can be sated that the number of times individual A had engaged in sex before marriage is partly dependent on relationships engaged.

One thing is certain: the answer to the `question' is responsible for the obvious emergency of infidelity amongst individuals in various relationships.

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My Kind Of Man, My Kind Of Woman (Introduction and chapter sample)

Introduction
The classic is a rare-to-find two-titled work piece that extensively sheds light on criteria many men and women use to ascertain their spouses' fitness for relationships and marriages and vividly identifies their flaws. A second-to-none gem, it goes a long way in affirming the should-be kind of man and/or woman, though based on choice.

My Kind Of Man and My Kind of Woman are a must-read and must-have materials that clearly recognize reasons many marriages fail and relationships decline. Yet, it asserts to interested and women their right kind of spouses.

In this book, readers will get to appreciate the essence of having the right partners for a life-long union or worth-remembering relationship leading marriage. It is a worth considering masterpiece. Irrespective of race, status or culture, it is a sure-bet for successful relationships.

The come-to-stay interest elucidates seven major criteria (each) that constitute reasons many relationships and marriages fail to work out. They are arranged in the following formats:

My Kind Of Woman

1.

Chapter 1: Wealth/Money
2.

Chapter 2: Responsibility/Maturity
3.

Chapter 3: Background
4.

Chapter 4: Appearance and Intellect
5.

Chapter 6: Sexuality
6.

Chapter 7: Defense

Also, for My Kind Of Woman,

1.

Chapter 1: Appearance
2.

Chapter 2: Sexuality
3.

Chapter3: Wealth/Money/Financial independence
4.

Chapter 4: Intellect
5.

Chapter 5: Background
6.

Chapter 6: Behavioral disposition
7.

Chapter 7:Level of handling home affairs (matters)

Readers will certainly come to the realization that though they are worth being termed `criteria', turn-outs of these qualities in many relationships and marriages have not yielded anticipates success stories. Nonetheless, it gives a clear-cut suggestion of who their right spouses should be (with irrefutable reasons)

The concluding part of this timeless relationship and marriage guide has a striking statement, integrating the should-be kind of man and woman.

Every chapter in each title explains the interesting benefits of considering the qualities as criteria for relationships and marriages, explores their weaknesses and asserts the `right things'. What are those `right things'?

Particularly helpful to aspiring (young) Christian brothers and sisters, this classic will undoubtedly help them rightly position them to locate their kind of spouses. Also, those who are seeking for good relationships and marriages will find this work piece interesting and practicable. Moreover, would-be married couples will get to appreciate the essence of this profound work.

My Kind Of Man
Chapter one
When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?

Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them'. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!

A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she's in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?

The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:

Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world's prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society's `who is who' came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.

Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns' as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince's financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.

It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously catering for herself, Vince and her two-month- old baby, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia's strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.

As time progressed, Lucia couldn't afford to unnecessary couldn't afford to foot the home's utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.

As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?

More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they've been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl' to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.

However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries'.

An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil' by prioritizing wisdom; embracing true love instead of money.

Here, the term of `wealth' is synonymous with `money'.

My Kind Of Woman


Chapter One

Appearance

By nature, men are generally moved by what they see. The masculine gender is wired by sight. Hence, the reason for the criterion, appearance. Men are attracted to their opposite sex by virtue of appearance.

Therefore, do not be surprised when you hear most of them say: `she must be beautiful', `she must have the right curves; perfect shape and in all, have all-complete physique', `she must be vey attractive' and so on. This is the first thing that draws the attention of a man to a woman and becomes a threshold or foundation for further build-ups of an eventual union.

Knowing this natural fact, a number of `wise' women have taken to modern-day fashion trends to portray who they are a shadow of-modest or provocative outlook. Obviously, their appearance becomes a field; pulling or gravitating the desired men to them to their intents.

Afterall, a good-looking woman is the dream of a typical carnal or sense-ruled man. John, 45, has this to say; `I got attracted to my girlfriend, now my wife because of her physique. It did go a long way in strengthening our relationship. In no time, we clicked! And now, we're happily married with two lovely children'.

On the contrary, good appearance has been used as bait by women to engage men whose criterion is reflected on the threshold in a union of obnoxious abyss. A lot of men are really oblivious of the fact that looks are deceiving and not all women who are good looking portray the good-looking image. Stanley, 32, who married Lucinda, 31, made an interesting comment of the outcome: `If you'd told me Lucinda will be a thorn in my flesh someday, be rest assured I'd keep you at armslenght. At prima fascie, I felt deeply in love with her because of her stunning looks. Then, after much deliberation, she responded to my proposal of marriage. We went on a date and all other things kept going well as planned. One thing led to the other and we soon got married. It was after a year we got married I realized the `were-wolf' behaviour of my wife as not only a nag but also an unrepentant parasite. Her stunning looks were blindfolding and I happen to be the unfortunate victim. Now, I'm at the point of no going back in my marriage'.

An ever-chaste born again brother works with the biblical consciousness; `man looks at the appearance but God looks at the heart'. Rather than pay strict attentions to appearance, he's simply focused at intents, a reflection of the mind's quality. Knowing the mind of God, he reciprocates the rendition 'as he is, so we are on earth' in his dealings with his spouse.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

An Overview Of Engi(o)sophy...a phase of true modernization(extract)

Humanity's mandate by God; the emblem of all viable works of nature is to exert its all-encompassing nature by unraveling the mysteries of the dynamics of all entities and their efficacies. In other words, the basis of existence of humanity is explained by its calling; applying the god character to use: inter-relating the dynamics of all works of nature to commensurate its existence.


In response to the asserted mandate, humanity, over the years, has devised time – influenced standards and methods to continually leave up to anticipation. As a matter of fact, humanity to a large extent, believes that it has exerted the "god of the universe" quality to recognize and act on the unveiled mysteries of nature. The various norms, values (ethics), endeavours, patterns, and skills are the methods and standards employed by humanity in response to its mandate.


However, humanity had over time depicted a discrepancy in its calling. Undoubtedly, it has prioritized certain efficacious entities discovered and acted on over others thereby making them seemingly less important. Certainly, the consequences are well spelt out. How?


Consider a farmland where there are different crops to be cultivated. The laissez-a-faire attitude of the farmer in systematically arranging (by spacing) his crops will create an unhealthy harvest as an unfavourable "survival of the fittest" competition arises amongst the cultivated crops thereby denying the relatively weak crops the necessary factors of growth. Consequently, some die while the living but denied ones suffer from different forms of abnormal physiological or morphological diseases. Whereas, care exercised by the farmer should have prevented the chance of "this harsh" competition from occurring.


Similarly, the standards, ethics, and other recognized methodologies developed by humanity to actualize its calling have unequivocally faced not-good challenges. These interests have prioritized the efficacies of certain human-developed discoveries and not defined others. In today's world, multifarious socio-economic, cultural and political set backs are as a result of inequality of developed strategies by humanity.

The questions "is there a way out of these?" and "if there is, which way?" arise. No doubt, there is a need to re-defining the human recognition of interests. How?


Precisely, re-defining the human recognition of interests which as we will see later, is no doubt a phase of true modernization. The come-to-stay coined term "Engi(o)sophy" surfaces to serve this purpose. To begin with, what is the meaning of Engi(o)sophy?


As asserted, Engi(o)sophy is a projected come-to-stay development aimed at re-defining the human recognition of interests which is a phase of true modernization.


Engi (o) sophy is theoretically a derived product resulting from the fusion of engineering and philosophy. It can be likened to a mulatto being that results from the fusion of the gametes of a Caucasian lady and Negroid man. :




Literally, Engi(o)sophy views engineering as a present continuous term, that is, a precisely creative process and philosophy as intricacies or principles. Therefore, Engi(o)sophy literally can be viewed as "continuum of intricacies". By continuum, we mean continued improvement or modification of. Interestingly, Engi(o)sophy cuts across all disciplines saliently unveiling the practiced but not spelt out engineering and philosophy. The literal meaning of Engi(o)sophy is considered. In other words, Engi(o)sophy is unusually defining but rightly expressing philosophy and engineering in all endeavours of human existence.


* Historically, the new concept derives its name from the words "Engi" (as in Engineering), meaning ‘creative' and (o)sophy (as in philosophy), meaning "wisdom". Therefore, Engi(o)sophy is simply "creative wisdom". It can be analyzed as:

Engineering + Philosophy = Engineering-Philosophy. However, considering the "fusion", "Engi" + (o)sophy" = "Engi(o)sophy", the surest possibility! Why the bracket signs on "o", one of the spell-outs of Engi(o)sophy and why is it the surest possibility?


* Engi(o)sophy, as applied to human endeavours, is the theoretical equivalent of practice. The word "sophy" originates from the Greek word "sophia" meaning wisdom, precisely, theoretical wisdom. Irrespective of discipline, Engi(o)sophy is the theory of its practice.


* Engi(o)sophy is a pictured come-to-stay concept which asserts unequivocally the fact that all human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) are an appreciation of creative wisdom. As a matter of fact, they derive their source from the term "creative wisdom". It is a fact that integrate all fields of human discipline to itself; having all disciplines answer the name Engi(o)sophy in its recognition because it is a translation of the (original) source of all human disciplines, creative wisdom. All disciplines are wisely created by man and are continually improved using time –influenced aids (or technologies) for the continued recognition and benefit of mankind.


.Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict


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About the book

Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.

Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.

Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.

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Come To Think Of It, Sex!

COME TO THINK OF IT, SEX!

There are different views by people on the issue of sex.However, we will be considering sexual intercourse. To the male folk, sex is arguably seen as a means of reducing tension. It asserts the qualities of sex as the true appropriation of sex and should best appreciated at the discerned time_marriage.With somewhat funny sense of creativity, it contains didactic statements which are worth listening enabling sex performers to exercise the c-caution ideology.

The true qualities of sex are gotten from the its spell outs, S, E and X. The term SEX can be analyzed as:

S-Simply

E-Erotic

X-Xperience(Experience), where ‘x' has the same pronunciation as ‘Ex'.Therefore, the term ‘sex' has three major qualities namely

!)Simplicity

2) Eroticism

3) Experience

Simplicity: This refers to the ‘actions' of the God-given tools present in the male and female, that is, the PENIS and VAGINA respectively. Obviously, sexuality is one of the essential qualities of a man. Therefore, the ‘simplified indicator' a man uses to simply demonstrate his Male Acted Name is his reproductive PENIS.Creatively, the PENIS can be analyzed as the

P-‘Pointed'

E-Erection (Extension)

N-Notably

I-Instrumental (for)

S-Sex.On the other hand, it takes the consent of the Worth Of A Man's Worth, the woman for sexual intercourse to be complete. Similarly, the ‘device' she uses is her VAGINA. Therefore, the VAGINA can be creatively seen as the

V-‘Ventured'

A-Area, (the)

G-G-spot

I-Influence

N-Notably

A-Aroused.

Eroticism; Sex is erotic in nature. Eroticism is the factor responsible for the ‘actions' of the instrumental-for-sex male and female devices. Simply, it is the factor responsible for the simplicity nature of sex.The term EROTIC can be analyzed as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry. Precisely, it is a force that causes the dynamic action of the male and female ‘tools'. Also, EROTICISM can creatively be seen as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry, (the) Initiated Sex Motion.

Experience: This is product that results after the ‘coming together' of Simplicity and Eroticism. There are two kinds of experiences that reflect the inclinations of people towards sex.They are So Exciting Experience and Simply Exciting Experience. The former has to do with sexual freedom: seeking for sexual gratification by involving different people to the act at different times and spaces while the latter involves a limiting the number of partners engaged. Better yet, people whose sexual inclination reflects on the kind of experience exercise faithfulness instead of promiscuity and are less likely to contract diseases, feel insecure and doubtful and will have a better sense of sexual judgment.

Therefore, it is advisable to appreciate sex at the discerned time, marriage by adopting the habit chastity, though it involves hard work on your part. But considering the long-term benefits, it certainly worth the effort.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward


First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘postulation of the sex arithmetic'. This is a postulation which is intended to be a theory. Basically, it is a ‘computable' equation which explains or depicts s generally the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender have engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. Precisely, the ‘computable' equation has 13 interpretations which represent the sex lives of different individuals

At this juncture, the proof authenticating the potency of the intended theory will have to be shown. In this case, we take as case study Individual A. The validity of this equation is dependent on the following statements

1) It can be numerically determined if individual A can keep a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sexual activities.

2) It is dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged.

3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of 1. Note: ‘sex' refers to the direct physical relation between a man and woman

The ‘computable' equation which is a representation of the total number of times individual A(N) had engaged is: ,

N=No±N1±N2±N3±N4, where No represents the first_time sex experience had (with partner a, say), N1 represents the sex relations individual A had engaged in his or her subsequent relationships (with partners b, c,d, e , f… ), N3 represents the possible one-night stand/for-the-moment sex situations (with partners m, n, o, p…) and N4 represents the number of times individual A had engaged in sex with his or her would-be marital partner before marriage.

The interpretations are given as the following

1) N=No+N1+N2+N3+N4

2) N=No+N1+N2+N3

3) N=No+N1+N2

4) N=No+N1+N4

5) N=No+N2+N4

6) N=No+N3+N4

7) N=No+N1+N3

8) N=No+N2+N3

9) N=No+N1

10) N=No+N2

11) N=No+N3

12) N=No+N4

13) N=No

Secondly, ‘the way forward' refers to the consequences_ the varying degree of insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, chances of contracting diseases and others before and after marriage, proportional to the number of partners engaged. Obviously, it explains the ‘way outs' as abstinence, faithfulness and health caution as remedies to the various ‘entanglements', the interpreted sex lives

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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About the book

Do you really want to know the true meaning of the word S-E-X? Are you ready to get yourself re-orientated about the dynamics of sex? Do you really want to know the science and art of sex? Have you ever pondered on the right appropriation of sex? To you, what is sex?
The book titled Come To Think Of It, Sex! Is a driven_ by_ inspiration interest which focuses on the true qualities of sex as the basis for its definition. It is pleasure _ filled, somewhat funny but posses didactic remarks on the appropriation of sex. It is a mini-sized book that has in its identity creatively designed chapters that give the reader not only a sense of appreciation but the urge to 'thirst' for more. The chapters in this book are designed such that they complemented each other. Its recognition is a 'pave-way' for the already-written-but-unpublished 'Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward' which puts forward an intended theory, a 'computable' equation on the number of times individuals had engaged in sex before marriage and what likely happens to them thereafter.

It is a must-have, must-read and must-keep ageless guide which will be essentially useful to young adults. married people and growing teenagers(18 years of age, at least).Therefore,if you are 18 and above, this book is for you!
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Monday, May 23, 2011

11 mAJOR dECEPTIONS yOU mUST gUARD yOURSELF aGAINST...

n our today's world, there are certain statements we hear either from the mass media, our peers or other sources which have undoubtedly formed part and parcel of our mindset. As a matter of fact, information we listen to have over the years unequivocally eaten deep form the root of our growing years of childhood and youth to the stable period of adulthood. Consequently, these statements are saliently expressed and understood words of deception which have affected our dealings with people. Therefore, the need to ‘guard' ourselves form deceptions is at this point necessary. ‘What are the deceptions?' A question you may want to ask.

Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.

At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve' the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;

Deception 1: It is no big deal losing your virginity

Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness' of sex action by engaging different partners into it.

Deception3: The bad girls ‘get' or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)

Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting

Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.

Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married

Deception 7: Divorce is normal

Deception 8: Love is blind

Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.

Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.

Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.

In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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About the book
n our world today, infidelity, acquisition of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies,divorce, demise or break ups, separation or estranged situations, insecurity and doubt and many others have unequivocally plagued relationships and marriages existing amongst individuals_celebrities inclusive.The prominence of these ills is due to the psychological acceptance of certain blindfolds known as deceptions.

The classic, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against… sheds light on the negative effects of eleven major deceptions as they affect the unions of individuals with their spouses,in relationships and marriages, using a "let us face it" approach by sighting true life stories and situations.Also,it gives lasting solutions to those seeking for the recuperation of their relationships and marriages, though dependent on choice.

It is aimed at specifically ensuring that healthy, blissful and enduring relationships and marriages are maintained, amidst the apparent cancerous spread of these ills.

Moreover,to growing youths, especially teenage men and women, who are currently not involved in serious relationships or married but aspire to be in a union with their spouses in future, this ageless masterpiece educates them on the inevitable truths associated with successful and healthy relationships leading to marriage by "preaching" to them their relevance:the right start to kick against the eminence of thriving blindfolds or deceptions.

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WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR MAN

To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what they see.

Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.

To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil' them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?

Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?

Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get' their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit' to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?

To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction

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About the book
Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?

The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality

It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
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WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR WOMAN

To be honest, what do you really know about your woman? What information do you have about her background: her past experiences, her present interests and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think you are the right woman for him? In the first place, what attracted him to you?

Generally, in the world we live, there are three basic things that attract people money: (property), sex, religion (spirituality). This is irrespective of gender. In this case, however, our gaze is fixed on the female gender.

First, women arguably get attracted to the world-recognized money in the form of material possession. One of the reasons many ladies get into relationships with men and possibly marry them is material possession, properties owned or for money sake. The question that arises is: When there is financial insolvency, would they hold on to their relationship status"? The answer to this question, unknown to some men, who believe their women truly loves them, has them not exercise a second-thought approach, regarding their ties with their so-called female lovers. Personally, on what ground is your woman involved in a relationship with or married to you-money or material possession? Think about it!

Besides, a factor which attracts young ladies into engaging in relationships with men is the issue of sex. If not truly chaste, it is a likelihood that a lady would have before the time she met her ‘beau', been engaged in several sex-linked relationships with different men. To an extent, she had engaged in failed ‘i-love- you' relationships and been ‘used and dumped' like a disposable syringe by her partners, all in the name of fruitless relationships. To be candid, is your woman sexually worth being faithful to?

Moreover, spirituality is a force that attracts people. As a matter of fact, this factor accounts for the reason a considerable number of women get into relationship and marriage-compatibility, expressed in terms of spiritual dedication. However, though arguable, some women ‘suspiciously' devote themselves to certain commitments in churches, mosques and other religious centers with an innate desire to ‘settle down' with their Mr. Rights. Once attained, they abscond! In all sincerity, what makes you think she is really serious with the recognized spiritual dedication you are involved in? Is she using this tool as bait to get herself ‘hooked' to you?

In a nutshell, the questions asked can be answered by the mentioned forces of attraction. Therefore, it's up to you to act now!

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

Ben4realla@yahoo.com

About the book
Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?

The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality

It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
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Housewifery...giving the role of home-makers a professional and an academic touch

Analogous to mid-wifery, Housewifery is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers or housewives an academic and professional ‘touch'. It is dedicated to aspiring wives, dedicated mothers and committed housewives. By extension, female celebrities can benefit from the come-to-stay Housewifery as it vividly tutors them how to strike a balance between stardom and call-to-duty home-keep.

Housewifery is a term which agrees that the home (a place where the where a family's recognition is resident) is essential for the continued peace and security of a nation. It is an interest that sees the home as the smallest unit or foundational block of nation building and pictures the woman as the home's ‘nucleus'. Hence, professionalizing and making academic Housewifery is worth considering.

Academic Housewifery is a curriculum-based recognition which has three major considerations: physical (economic, sexual) empowerment, mental empowerment and spiritual empowerment. Concerned experts; lecturers, academicians or practitioners will employ their wealth of experience on these forms of empowerment.

On the other hand, professional Housewifery is a recognition and appreciation of a nation's government incorporating it as one of the ministry of women affairs interest and portraying itself via awarding the most outstanding housewives. The awards given are a time-taken technical exercise devised by experts to evaluate the performances of housewives in various states, communities or localities.
Ponder on these; a true wife is a well-nurtured female or virtuous woman who has painstakingly taken her time to properly nurture herself to embrace patience instead of haste, humility instead of pride, kindness instead of hostility, sincerity instead of falsehood, transparency instead of hypocrisy, education instead of ignorance, spirituality instead of carnality, love instead of hate and fidelity instead of infidelity...

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
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Akin to midwifery, it is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers a professional and an academic touch.

The classic explains the essence of the home and family as the microcosm of any stable society and the woman, a pivot of this unit.

Therefore, the neologism, Housewifery is a come-to-stay interest that has two identification,academic and professional Housewifery.

Institutes of home sciences and family studies and higher institutions offering any home-related science endeavours will find this development handy.

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Saturday, May 21, 2011

THE GOVERNMENT AND PEOPLE_ THE EATER, CUTLERIES AND FOOD CONCEPT

More often than not, people, all around the world complain bitterly and assert the importance of their relevance to the state. However, if we are to critically look into the questions: ‘who is the government?' and ‘who are the people?', it can be said that the dynamics into the crucial nature of the asked questions are profound. Why?

Quite a number of individuals are of the view a government is an organized socio-political and economic body, consisting of people-elected persons, on-seat political representatives or to-the-throne monarchs and the general masses of a particular geographic entity. On the other hand, the people are seen as the masses that possess rights and obligations to their nations of citizenry. On the contrary, are these definitions potent enough to describe the government and people?

Believe it or not, the government, from the era of the supreme and great Babylonian empire to our present disposition, has been, is and will always be ahead of the people. How and why?

Consider this instance: You had in mind to go to a restaurant nearby, knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from in the waiter's menu, expenses to be incurred and the kind of cutleries to be used. Of course, you had gotten a picture of what to do at the restaurant based on the plans you have. The cutleries have no idea of being used to get started the eating process. Should there be inconveniences observed when using the cutleries, it would be reasonable of you to request that the waiter provide you another replacement.

This analogy explains the edge of the government has over the people. By analysis, the individual, that is, you, having in mind to go to a nearby restaurant to eat can be construed as the brainwork (intent) of the government to orchestrate certain agenda_politica, economical, social and so on to be executed or passed into law. ‘Knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from…' can be interpreted as government-set array of targets or goals that can be attained within the bounds of its sovereignty. The ‘cutleries' refer to the people. The ‘picture' pinpoints at the visualization of how realizable set government strategies are (analogous to the individual having in mind to eat at the restaurant). By implication, the cutleries, having no idea of being used to get started the eating process refers to the oblivion of the people towards the government's intended plans. Asking the waiter to replace the use of cutleries because of inconveniences observed means the government has the power to ‘replace' certain people who obstruct or impede the actualization of its objectives. The government is also ware of the sacrifice to be made or price to be paid to realize its goals. Hence, the phrase, ‘… expenses to be incurred…' ‘… The kind of cutleries to be used' simply refers to a set or group of individuals that will not only pose problems to governmental decisions and plans but will carry out to the letter its orchestrations. The food delicacy or combination refers to certain activities, dues, and other interests that the people are to offer; tax payment, productivity, civic duties and other domestic and professional expenses.

In all, the government is ahead of its citizens (subjects), courtesy of information advantage (similar to having in mind to eat at the restaurant and subsequent actions toward realizing it without the knowing of the cutleries!). Information advantage is originally of its own laid-down standards and appreciation of the quality of information, possessed by exceptional people in a ‘crowd' of masses by ‘specially' setting them aside to join its train of dominance thereby toting to its reservoir of ‘for-all-ages' quality information.




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Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success

Ever wondered why the United States is undoubtedly one of the world's most successful business nations? Do you know why few individuals attain mega success, even in not-auspicious conditions while others realize a tip of their deserved iceberg? The answer is simple: it is in the demonstrated and not-considered Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success. What are they?

The following elucidates in succinct terms the seven irrefutable facts associated with business success.

1) Defining the orientation of the business: The most fundamentally important factor which is inevitable to business success; definition rather than ambiguity. Precisely, establishing business goals; vision and mission statements, aims and objectives are sine qua non, the catalyst starters of business success.

2) Knowledge Acquisition: In consonance with set business goals, reading related and up-to-date business materials; journals, articles, books and other forms of business-disseminated messages, information-consciousness, development of relational skills, relating with individuals in the same business arena; learning lessons from their experiences, their 'Dos' and 'Do-nots' approach to the business, strengths and weaknesses, seeking for inspiration that breathe intuition and ingenuity are facts associated with business success.

3) Maintaining a positive attitude: The decision to maintain a positive mindset is tantamount to consistency, focus, patience and persistence needed for the continued thriving of the defined business. Owing to certain information which are generally unfavourable, the need to keep a positive psyche becomes essential in order to achieve anticipated business success.

4) Taking calculated risks: Considering the level of knowledge acquired and set goals, success in business is unequivocally made possible by the risks taken. In business dynamics, the statement; 'leap before you look' is a motto of successful business men and women. However, a full grasp of acquired knowledge empowers successful business giants to take computed risks in the pursuit of progress in the businesses they engage themselves. No business enterprise have attained eventual mega success and continually thrived with paying the price, taking risks.

5) Minimizing losses and Maximizing profits: A follow-up to the embarked-upon calculated risks, understanding the core of business success lies in the ability to minimize losses and maximize profits. Granted, the essence of any successful business is to realize profit. At times, loss sets in. However, prioritizing maximized profits and limiting to the barest minimum losses are also essential to business success.

6) Taking responsibility for business actions: In the making of an entrepreneur or investor, a chief executive officer or a managing director, certain outcomes of business actions and decisions; low or high turn-over rates, profits or losses, surplus or deficit account reconciliations should be the responsibility of the would-be successful business man or woman, rather than taking excuses for lapses, blaming others for negative imbalances or being too self-concerned (taking credits for all positive business outcomes instead of acknowledging the efforts of others). Instead, through an organized win-win strategy in terms of demonstrating a relational carry-along disposition, business success can be fostered by accepting responsibilities as the business' 'watch dog' for any good or bad outcome and subsequently improving on it or providing its corrections via the co-operation of others.

7) Being investment-minded: This is a mindset, resident in the lives of individuals who want to experience mega business success; setting the pace for others to follow, trailblazers in the endeavours they engage themselves and role models for prospective business men and women. Of all kinds of existing business attachments (employee, self-employed, business owner and investor attachments), the investor attachment is the one whose success in relation to its advantages edge others; pays low taxes, very likely to escape the government debt bracket, gets richer and makes money do the working, permitting privacy to the concerned attaché.

Calvin Coolidge, a one-time U.S president once said: 'America's business is business'. Like the American dream, 'you can be anything that you want to be', as a (prospective) business man or woman, you can be the business success you are by considering and demonstrating these irrefutable facts.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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About the book

Have you considered the uniqueness of the number "7"? Believe it or not, the number "7" is apparently a mystery to some people in terms of its particular uniqueness but really a symbol of perfection. In a larger picture, the right inevitables are the perfected "7" recognition, that is, the seven irrefutable Facts Associated with Business Success. Simply, the difference between successful and non-successful ones is the ability to carefully consider and demonstrate the Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated with Business Success. Without a doubt, the U.S has over the years recognized the perfected "seven" recipes necessary for continued thriving and advancement of every business endeavours, a simple statement of business success.

• This must, have-read must-use and should-be-carried-along guide will be useful to students offering courses related to business, professional business men and women, business consultants business administrators and managers, academics in the colleges or faculties of business sciences, many business school, aspiring business men and women, upcoming business person still-striving-to-be-successful business individuals and idea-seeking business individual.

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What Should We Crave For In Life?

What is really our purpose on earth? Do we exist as to occupy the earth's eco-system? These questions have unequivocally been asked by all ages and classes of men from the medieval to our present existence. Man, by virtue of applied wisdom, has figured out various tools to commensurate his However, has the tools man devised correctly answered what he craves for? In the first place, what are those tools man has devised?

The belief that money is all there is to living man has made man go extra miles to ensure the most physically communicated language is at their disposal. On a second thought, the unfulfilled state of many men who succeed in getting rich is a statement of the fact that money is obviously not the answer to what we should be craving for. Simply, our purpose on earth is not necessarily to make money. Over the years, there have been records of great achievers who attained enviable financial status but lived life as though it is all there is.

Besides, the unending quest for happiness has made man unnecessarily sacrifices that ought to be his ‘birthrights' for the sake of emotional delight. As a matter of fact, many people around the world really thirst for happiness and are ready to commit themselves to anything that will fetch them happiness. On a contrary, happiness is a temporal condition which is dependent on seen physicalities. The truth is the condition of happiness loses its grip when this issue is raised.

Moreover, the search for earthly knowledge and other ‘compulsory' academic certifications has made man apparently believe that this is his purpose. As a matter of fact, people burn mid-night candles to see they come out in acceptable certificates and subsequently enhance their ‘market' values by acquiring more advanced and professional degrees. Not bad per se, are they what we should truly crave for? We have read of great geniuses and academicians whose accomplishments are on the footprints of contemporary recognition but are in life,' celebrated failures'. Simply, academic or intellectual attainment is not the truth that explains the reason we are here on earth.

Furthermore, man has defined what he craves for by seeking for companionship for different purposes: marriage and relationship. Interestingly, some individuals seek for friendship for the purpose of sexual gratification. However, it is unequivocally the fact that this approach ends in futility as unfulfilment sets in.
People are no doubt engaged in a endless struggle to attain success. The success-craze has made many people go extra miles to realize fortunes in their chosen interests. Subsequently, they only realize that inspite of their success stories; there are still empty spaces yet to be filled in their lives.

In addition, man has figured out the path of soul belonging: a platform where they can practically feel sense of belonging. Some achieve this task by involving themselves in various sects or religions; others involve themselves in occults, all in the name of exercising a sense of belonging. Yet, this approach has obviously not answer the question as to what should really be craved for in life. In fact, more vacuums are left!

Man has inevitably believed that what he should be craving for is power and influence. No doubt, man wants to be domineering and exerts his influence on his environment which he finds himself. In the political world, we hear through the news and sometimes, witness scenarios where individuals go the length to ensure they find themselves at the corridors of power, not minding the adversities their actions will constitute in the life of the commoner. However, after all is done, though they attain want they desire, there is unfulfilment, despite the power and influence they possess.

What should we really crave for in life? This is a question asked by an individual who is interested in the basis of existence on mother earth. A quest for divine wisdom that breathe grace which brings about boundless joy, attracting the right company for marriage and other important interests, all enwrapped in the greatest TRUTH which is the ONLY way to eternal life, engendering the true power man should live on that gives birth to eternal or inner peace we crave for is what should really be of paramount concern to us.

IHEKUNA CHIMEZIE BENEDICT
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Trivialities, reflecting themselves as material gains and other transient endeavours are man's figured out ways to assert his existence. As a matter of fact, mankind believes in the efficacies of these interests as bases of his existence and vividly asserts that they worth being craved for.

However, history-documented reports and records have unveiled the not-good and sad end of great men and women who sought for solace in these earthly worth-money, companionship, a sense of soul belonging, power and influence and so on.Without a doubt, it is a certainty that what should really be craved for transcends man's figured out interests.

This work piece reveals what should be carved for to ensure a worth living stay on mother earth.

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Why We No Longer Read Books

A Worth Considering Proposal

Through the strength of intellectual effort backed with the God factor, it is of immense pleasure to annunciate to the world a come-to-stay interest, the classic, titled ‘Why We No Longer Read Books'. No doubt, it is certainly a benefit-yielding interest for all and sundry.

Why We No Longer Read Books is a rare-to-find masterpiece that sheds light on reasons book-reading culture has declined over the years. It asserts the fact that book-reading culture decline is not only limited to the black race, a contradiction of the notions of many peoples of the world. However, it maintains a stance that book reading in the form of acquired qualitative information is the bedrock behind man's witty inventions, wealth and other virtues of benefit to humanity.

It is a three-chapter work piece that unveils three major reasons book-reading culture has undoubtedly experienced a fall, irrespective of race. The following reasons which constitute the chapters of the readable material are listed below:

(A) Chapter one points a reason for the decline in most people's attitude towards book reading as the failure on the part of parents to properly inculcate the culture or habit of book reading in the growing years of their children or wards. Unarguably, the interest asserts that the foundation of book-reading culture begins from the home front and parents play a pivotal role in ‘enforcing' the act on their children. Hence, the incompetence of parents to discipline their wards in the light of reading quality books is what the classic states as one of the reasons people no longer read books.

(B) Chapter two unequivocally recognizes the fact that one of the major reasons people no longer read books as they use to is the thirst or craze for material, wealth or money acquisition. It unveils the verity that people have prioritize acquiring wealth and money over book reading, perhaps owing to changing and increasing demands of the world. Why We No Longer Read Books sees this factor as one of the reasons behind people's seeming non-chalant attitude towards book reading. Interestingly, it brings to cognizance the role of reading books as the bedrock behind all forms of wealth and material acquisition.

(C) Chapter three states irrefutably that another reason behind people not reading books especially amongst growing youths is the preference of academic/educational pursuit over the fundamentally important book-reading culture. Not bad per se the pursuit of academic or educational goals, the write-up observes factually that most institutes of higher learning impose seemingly insurmountable workloads that make students ‘abandon' book reading for the pursuit of their imminent academic accomplishments. Yet, the truth-unveiling classic explains the uniqueness of education or academics as being deeply rooted in book reading.

Interestingly, Why We No Longer Read Books concludes, following the Shakespearian assertion: ‘If you are not informed, you are deformed', that one of the factors, distinguishing an individual at present and in future is the quality of books read.

The target audience is the youth and it is very marketable in book stores, as an educational material and a home package. Also, libraries and other education-supporting outfits can find this classic very useful. Therefore your assistance towards the publication of this great work will be appreciated. Without a doubt, profitability and world fame await you.

In the pursuit of life, peace and liberty we stand and in God we trust.

Your Author

Mr.Ben




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Why We No Longer Read Books is a rare-to-find masterpiece that sheds light on reasons book-reading culture has declined over the years. It asserts the fact that book-reading culture decline is not only limited to the black race, a contradiction of the notions of many peoples of the world. However, it maintains a stance that book reading in the form of acquired qualitative information is the bedrock behind man's witty inventions, wealth and other virtues of benefit to humanity.

Interestingly, Why We No Longer Read Books concludes, following the Shakespearean assertion: 'If you are not informed, you are deformed', that one of the factors, distinguishing an individual at present and in future is the quality of books read.

The target audience is the youth and it is very marketable in book stores, as an educational material and a home package. Also, libraries and other education-supporting outfits can find this classic very useful. Therefore your assistance towards the publication of this great work will be appreciated. Without a doubt, profitability and world fame await you.

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Seven Wrong Acts Associated With Christians

In many churches, there are ways which many Christians apparently depict hospitality and a ‘worth-it' welcome to visitors. Not bad per se, the ‘welcome' and special treatments, so-called love feasts administered to new church comers, follow-ups and other necessary welfare packages leave much to be desired. The question is: ‘Are they really portraying the true Christian character?'

Over the years, Christians have unequivocally depicted hypocrisy in various which no doubts have questioned the ground and pillar of all divine truths, the church. Granted, some Christians would obviously not want to read this write-up, perhaps, owing to its not-encouraging undertones. However, it is the truth that we know that sets us free, as Christians. Therefore, we will consider seven recognized wrong acts associated with Christians.

To begin with, a wrong act many Christians are fond of is the ‘Sunday-Sunday' call to service. As a matter of obligation, they have taken the responsibility to attend church services only on the Holy day, Sunday, perhaps, owing to their background and influence of other people .In a way, they see Christianity as a routine and the church as the platform where such a routine can be excercised.However, what they fail to realize is that Christianity is no religion but a lifestyle which must be cultivated on a daily basis to appreciate its eternal existence.

Second, ‘chameleon' Christians frown at what they do best outside the enclosure of the church-pre-marital sex and adultery. Whence these issues are mentioned, they frown, a sign of insecurity and guilt, apparently taking offences at the words spoken by the preacher. Really, these are what they do when not in church. They claim the ‘holier than thou' attitude.

Besides, many Christians are fond of deliberately committing different forms of ‘notice-me' services. In fact, they commit themselves to certain functions that draw the attention of their superiors in church for the sake of favours and other attachments. Once they get what they so desire, they disappear into thin air! What a pity!

Moreover, in churches, it is noticeable that a number of Christians keep caucuses that recognize themselves as groups in the church, instead of playing equal host to all other members of the congregation, irrespective of status. Though they seem to treat other members of the church fairly well, they are realistically self-centered as the groups they come under are concerned about themselves rather than the interests of other members.

Furthermore, many single ladies who are Christians become suspiciously dedicated to the affairs of the church with the aim of settling down with their discerned ‘Mr. Rights'. There are several instances were ladies who succeed in attaining their motives abruptly avoid and in no time, completely stop attending church services.

As a matter of fact, some Christians have succeeded in creating amongst themselves enmity by destructively criticizing the derogating the actions of their fellow brethren and even their spiritual leaders. Funny enough, they camouflage themselves as ‘meant-for-good' Christians but realistically pose more harm than good. They oppose certain activities done in the church by their superiors and other brethren. On a second thought, if critically looked into, we will discover that the reasons for their opposition do not hold waters!

Quite a lot of Christians are on the exodus of seeking for perfect or ideal churches. Interestingly, they claim to be active members of their currently attended churches. However, they spiritually prostitute themselves from one church to the other in search of the perfect church of their choice. They fail to come to the recognition that there are no ideal churches and until they strive together with other Bible-believing Christians towards perfecting themselves as the church, that is, the body of Christ, such fugitive exercise will be tantamount to a wild goose chase.

In a nut shell, as Christians, it is about time we obliterated hypocrisy and wholeheartedly embraced the efficacies of the ground and pillar of all truths, the church. Paraphrasing John 4: 23, Jesus asserted that they that worship Him must do so is spirit and in truth. By inference, hypocrisy is carnal and untrue. Hence, in the relentless of pursuit to attain our life-long aspiration, perfection, should we carry along these habits of hypocrisy (Remember, we ought to be the light of the world)? If we do, then, we would be seen as ‘just Christians' by the world

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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About the book

Do you know why many Christians are living on the low-side of life? Have you ever wonder why Christians are always dominated by the world? Why is segregation a household name in Christianity? Despite laid-down biblical precepts, why are Christians embracing carnal values instead of adhering to things that are spiritual?

The classic 'Seven Wrong Acts Associated With Christians' is a must-read and must-have material which acts as a watchdog to the lives of Christians in order to achieve a 'resonance', that is, an agreement in the attitude displayed by Christians in and out of the church vicinity.

It is an all-christian-friendly search light which is dedicated to all Christians, irrespective of denomination;catholic, Methodist, baptist, Anglican, Presbyterian and so on.

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What Must Be Considered For A Successful Marriage

Marriage is a union which ought to be seen as an eternity-on-earth recognition. In other words, marriage is an institution whose longevity is dependent on the days on earth of the parties involved; beginning from the time the nuptial knots is annunciated to their dying day. However, many married people are not leaving up to what it ought to be. Why?

Marriage, the union between a man and woman, becoming husband and wife, is in itself longevity-based which must be built on an eternal foundation for its success to be experienced and enjoyed. On what eternal foundation must marriage be built?

Marital success is measured by its longevity. And people who will and/or experiencing a successful marriage are those who are prepared. It is said: ‘it takes two to tango'. A tango is a dance involving two active dance performers to demonstrate it. Without their active involvement, then the tango dance is a failure. Similarly, this accounts for the reason people does not experience successful marriages. They are not actively performing, unprepared or incompetent to demonstrate what a successful marriage is. Therefore, if you really want to experience a successful marriage, it is advisable for you to find your husband or wife in a number of men or women. If you really think you have found your ‘missing rib' or ‘Mr. Right', then let us lay the foundation of marital success!

It is interesting to reason that some people marry for trivial reasons and as a result, divorce for trivial reasons. They fail to realize it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married. Simply, they cannot afford to stay married_ they do not have practical ideas of staying married. Afterall, a well dug and laid foundation will withstand the ‘burdens' of a mansion but a shallow and sandy foundation is not expected to withstand the forces of such an erect structure. The reason many people cannot appreciate in its length and breadth the essence of marriage is that they have trivialized their marital foundation (money, sex, sympathy and other material gains) in anticipation that it would withstand marital challenges instead of figuring out the eternal foundation necessary for a successful marriage.

The root of a successful marriage which marriage-conscious individuals must lay is true love. Primarily, true love is an eternity-on-earth value that makes married couples stay married, no matter what ensues. Simply put, true love is the foundation of a successful marriage. It is translated as the longevity of marriage, that is,

True love translates to longevity of marriage

Longevity in marriage=Longevity in (Trust + Communication)

=Longevity in Trust + Longevity in Communication

Trust is simply the Total Reliance Upon Someonelse's Truths (fidelity, submission, supportiveness, patience, wisdom and so on) and communication is the voiced complement or recognition of trust.

A tentative observation and extrapolation assert: At most, twenty percent of the world's population that are married are experiencing and will experience a successful marriage. On the other hand, at least, eighty percent of the world's population is staying married in the light of anticipated divorce, separation, bitterness, regrets and insecurity and doubt.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

+2348062162220

Ben4realla@yahoo.com

About the book
Many people, all around the world are staying married to each other in anticipation of divorce, separation, regrets, bitterness, insecurity and doubts because they fail to realize that it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married.

As the saying goes 'it takes two to tango', marriage is an agreement involving the the preparedness of couples, usually man and wife to-be, in embracing its challenges. Alas, it is unequivocally clear that a lot of married people are practically oblivious of this fact

The classic elucidates in detail reasons few people experience marital success while the reverse is the case for the majority of married individuals. It is a must-read masterpiece that explains two factors associated with marital success; trust and communication.
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