n our today's world, there are certain statements we hear either from the mass media, our peers or other sources which have undoubtedly formed part and parcel of our mindset. As a matter of fact, information we listen to have over the years unequivocally eaten deep form the root of our growing years of childhood and youth to the stable period of adulthood. Consequently, these statements are saliently expressed and understood words of deception which have affected our dealings with people. Therefore, the need to ‘guard' ourselves form deceptions is at this point necessary. ‘What are the deceptions?' A question you may want to ask.
Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.
At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve' the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;
Deception 1: It is no big deal losing your virginity
Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness' of sex action by engaging different partners into it.
Deception3: The bad girls ‘get' or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)
Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting
Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.
Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married
Deception 7: Divorce is normal
Deception 8: Love is blind
Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.
Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.
Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.
In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
About the book
n our world today, infidelity, acquisition of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies,divorce, demise or break ups, separation or estranged situations, insecurity and doubt and many others have unequivocally plagued relationships and marriages existing amongst individuals_celebrities inclusive.The prominence of these ills is due to the psychological acceptance of certain blindfolds known as deceptions.
The classic, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against… sheds light on the negative effects of eleven major deceptions as they affect the unions of individuals with their spouses,in relationships and marriages, using a "let us face it" approach by sighting true life stories and situations.Also,it gives lasting solutions to those seeking for the recuperation of their relationships and marriages, though dependent on choice.
It is aimed at specifically ensuring that healthy, blissful and enduring relationships and marriages are maintained, amidst the apparent cancerous spread of these ills.
Moreover,to growing youths, especially teenage men and women, who are currently not involved in serious relationships or married but aspire to be in a union with their spouses in future, this ageless masterpiece educates them on the inevitable truths associated with successful and healthy relationships leading to marriage by "preaching" to them their relevance:the right start to kick against the eminence of thriving blindfolds or deceptions.
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What Must Be Considered For A Successful Marriage
Marriage is a union which ought to be seen as an eternity-on-earth recognition. In other words, marriage is an institution whose longevity is dependent on the days on earth of the parties involved; beginning from the time the nuptial knots is annunciated to their dying day. However, many married people are not leaving up to what it ought to be. Why?
Marriage, the union between a man and woman, becoming husband and wife, is in itself longevity-based which must be built on an eternal foundation for its success to be experienced and enjoyed. On what eternal foundation must marriage be built?
Marital success is measured by its longevity. And people who will and/or experiencing a successful marriage are those who are prepared. It is said: ‘it takes two to tango'. A tango is a dance involving two active dance performers to demonstrate it. Without their active involvement, then the tango dance is a failure. Similarly, this accounts for the reason people does not experience successful marriages. They are not actively performing, unprepared or incompetent to demonstrate what a successful marriage is. Therefore, if you really want to experience a successful marriage, it is advisable for you to find your husband or wife in a number of men or women. If you really think you have found your ‘missing rib' or ‘Mr. Right', then let us lay the foundation of marital success!
It is interesting to reason that some people marry for trivial reasons and as a result, divorce for trivial reasons. They fail to realize it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married. Simply, they cannot afford to stay married_ they do not have practical ideas of staying married. Afterall, a well dug and laid foundation will withstand the ‘burdens' of a mansion but a shallow and sandy foundation is not expected to withstand the forces of such an erect structure. The reason many people cannot appreciate in its length and breadth the essence of marriage is that they have trivialized their marital foundation (money, sex, sympathy and other material gains) in anticipation that it would withstand marital challenges instead of figuring out the eternal foundation necessary for a successful marriage.
The root of a successful marriage which marriage-conscious individuals must lay is true love. Primarily, true love is an eternity-on-earth value that makes married couples stay married, no matter what ensues. Simply put, true love is the foundation of a successful marriage. It is translated as the longevity of marriage, that is,
True love translates to longevity of marriage
Longevity in marriage=Longevity in (Trust + Communication)
=Longevity in Trust + Longevity in Communication
Trust is simply the Total Reliance Upon Someonelse's Truths (fidelity, submission, supportiveness, patience, wisdom and so on) and communication is the voiced complement or recognition of trust.
A tentative observation and extrapolation assert: At most, twenty percent of the world's population that are married are experiencing and will experience a successful marriage. On the other hand, at least, eighty percent of the world's population is staying married in the light of anticipated divorce, separation, bitterness, regrets and insecurity and doubt.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
About the book
Many people, all around the world are staying married to each other in anticipation of divorce, separation, regrets, bitterness, insecurity and doubts because they fail to realize that it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married.
As the saying goes 'it takes two to tango', marriage is an agreement involving the the preparedness of couples, usually man and wife to-be, in embracing its challenges. Alas, it is unequivocally clear that a lot of married people are practically oblivious of this fact
The classic elucidates in detail reasons few people experience marital success while the reverse is the case for the majority of married individuals. It is a must-read masterpiece that explains two factors associated with marital success; trust and communication.
Click on the link to get your copy of the book
or
copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42765 to get your copy
Marriage, the union between a man and woman, becoming husband and wife, is in itself longevity-based which must be built on an eternal foundation for its success to be experienced and enjoyed. On what eternal foundation must marriage be built?
Marital success is measured by its longevity. And people who will and/or experiencing a successful marriage are those who are prepared. It is said: ‘it takes two to tango'. A tango is a dance involving two active dance performers to demonstrate it. Without their active involvement, then the tango dance is a failure. Similarly, this accounts for the reason people does not experience successful marriages. They are not actively performing, unprepared or incompetent to demonstrate what a successful marriage is. Therefore, if you really want to experience a successful marriage, it is advisable for you to find your husband or wife in a number of men or women. If you really think you have found your ‘missing rib' or ‘Mr. Right', then let us lay the foundation of marital success!
It is interesting to reason that some people marry for trivial reasons and as a result, divorce for trivial reasons. They fail to realize it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married. Simply, they cannot afford to stay married_ they do not have practical ideas of staying married. Afterall, a well dug and laid foundation will withstand the ‘burdens' of a mansion but a shallow and sandy foundation is not expected to withstand the forces of such an erect structure. The reason many people cannot appreciate in its length and breadth the essence of marriage is that they have trivialized their marital foundation (money, sex, sympathy and other material gains) in anticipation that it would withstand marital challenges instead of figuring out the eternal foundation necessary for a successful marriage.
The root of a successful marriage which marriage-conscious individuals must lay is true love. Primarily, true love is an eternity-on-earth value that makes married couples stay married, no matter what ensues. Simply put, true love is the foundation of a successful marriage. It is translated as the longevity of marriage, that is,
True love translates to longevity of marriage
Longevity in marriage=Longevity in (Trust + Communication)
=Longevity in Trust + Longevity in Communication
Trust is simply the Total Reliance Upon Someonelse's Truths (fidelity, submission, supportiveness, patience, wisdom and so on) and communication is the voiced complement or recognition of trust.
A tentative observation and extrapolation assert: At most, twenty percent of the world's population that are married are experiencing and will experience a successful marriage. On the other hand, at least, eighty percent of the world's population is staying married in the light of anticipated divorce, separation, bitterness, regrets and insecurity and doubt.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
About the book
Many people, all around the world are staying married to each other in anticipation of divorce, separation, regrets, bitterness, insecurity and doubts because they fail to realize that it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married.
As the saying goes 'it takes two to tango', marriage is an agreement involving the the preparedness of couples, usually man and wife to-be, in embracing its challenges. Alas, it is unequivocally clear that a lot of married people are practically oblivious of this fact
The classic elucidates in detail reasons few people experience marital success while the reverse is the case for the majority of married individuals. It is a must-read masterpiece that explains two factors associated with marital success; trust and communication.
Click on the link to get your copy of the book
or
copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42765 to get your copy
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