Showing posts with label infidelity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label infidelity. Show all posts

Monday, July 4, 2011

The Code-13 Principle

Presently known as ‘Postulation of the sex arithmetic; a novel piece’, it is a novel classic that worth immense consideration in the 21st century. It is the advent of a world-changing phenomenon which will become a household name and a forte for sexuality. Whence accepted, this name or subject matter will not only be a literary masterpiece but an every-day reality.

The code-13 Principle is a term or recognition which takes to account the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender, had engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. This statement is made possible, courtesy of its mechanism known as the computable equation.

The computable equation takes to account the number of times individuals had engaged in sexual intercourse before getting married to their eventual spouses; from the first -sex experience to the point where concerned individuals call it quits with singlehood and embrace marriage. Taking to cognizance the first-sex experience number as constant (value of 1), validity of the computable equation depends on the individual’s sincerity to keep records of his or her sex activities and partly dependent on number of sexual relations engaged, it uses as case study a particular individual (A, say,) to state its uniqueness.

The equation has 13 mathematical interpretations which give the two major sex lives of individuals-simple and complex sex lives. There are also varying degrees of simplicity and complexity in the equation’s trends. There are signs and expressions used to construe the uniqueness of the all-time algebraic recognition. Hence, the name ‘The Code-13 Principle’. Here, based on logic and impression (writer’s judgment), certain labels are associated with those whose sex lives fall on the thirteen interpretations. There is an analysis and derivation or proof that asserts the verity of the equation under the watchful eyes of time and space.

The novel piece can be applied to three major social sciences; psychology, sexology and sociology. By extrapolation, it will go a long way in face-lifting criminology. With necessary modifications or attachments, individidual criminal tendencies by means of sexual behavior can be ascertained using the Code-13 principle

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? (introduction and chapter sample)

Introduction

The classic, Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? Is an interest that focuses on what make the issues of sex responsible for demise in relationships, estranged and divorced marital status by investigating the apparently considered trivial yardsticks and proffers rightly faithfulness approach to individuals who are in various relationships or married.

It is a must-read, must-have and must-keep work piece that has points, analogous to chapters, the trivialized yardsticks. The points are in the form of questions, striking phrases, and profound expressions. The points include the following:

Point1: How many times have you engaged in sex before marriage?

Point2: How many relationships have you been in, what kind of relationships were they and what led to the `break-ups'?

Point 3: In The relationship you are in presently, do you still have any crush on any you have dated? Are you secretly involved in any illicit affair with any of them, despite your current relationship?

Point 4: If you are married or in a relationship, would you compromise the faithfulness in the institution you are in, if given a tempting but favourable situation such that no one would know what really happened until the world ends?

Point 5: Men, would you be faithful to your wives or wives-to-be, despite ageing physical appearance and chose to ignore `sizzling' attractive young women?

Point6: The only physically sacred possession of a woman is her virginity…

Point 7: Women, would you still uphold faithfulness to your husbands or husbands to-be, despite infidelity on their part or their not being able to perform?

Point 8: The natural law of sowing and reaping is real.

Point 9: The best time to appreciating sexual faithfulness is marriage…

The points mentioned are seemingly seen as trivial yardsticks. The (sincere) answers and follow-up of point 9 will respectively determine whether or not an individual is faithful and level of one's faithfulness.

If you really want to swim through the water of a successful relationship and marriage completely, then, you must be ready to get thoroughly soaked in the complete questioning and sincerity-based answers to questions that appeal to you.

Point One
At this juncture, it is important to assert this: in a relationship or marriage, there are two virtues that bind individuals together; love and sex. The former is a product of heartfelt affection reflected as the outward value placed on by both parties while the latter is genuinely an expression (in form of direct physical contact) of the value placed by both parties.

Point 1 is a questionnaire that inquires into the sexual fidelity of an individual. It could be you! However, we take individual A as case study. Individual A could be a male or female. The question is asked: `individual A, How many times did you engage in sex before this time'; marriage? You will be amazed at the likely responses you would get. Individual A may not answer, believing you want to infringe on his or her privacy. Individual A would likely give you a questionable numeric figure, taking your question with levity. Interestingly, Individual A may respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you!

If sex is an engaged activity, should it been seen as an off-the-record event, documented, kept as secret for a while (but think of this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or a thing to be remembered when you are in your grave!?

If you want it to be kept as secret for a while, t hen think of the question asked. The person you had it with could decide to unveil to his or her world what really happened. In time, this it may bring implications. Remember, the wall has ears.

If it should be remembered when you are in your grave, what an exclamation it is. No one to share this `burden' with? Frankly, you are in a world of your own.

If it is worth documenting (and remembering), then you should be congratulated! You are about exercising empirical knowledge on individuals (the wise ones; enabling them learn what can vaguely be thought or taught.

A number of times individual A had engaged in sex before the `time' or marriage is by number of fathomable, provided there is an up-to-date record or documentation. Awkward, isn't it? Take a cue from this:

A serious-minded businessman keeps records of his daily transactions or business activities. No matter his schedule and volume of transaction, he knows the essence of keeping records and documenting them for future references. Otherwise, he is considered an irresponsible individual who does not know the worth of what he is doing and is in the business just to dilly-ally his time. Similarly, keeping records of your sex activities will none or the other define your sex disposition (one of the determinants of your sexual fidelity), if not now but in future.

Unfortunately, many individuals are guilty of this. It can be inferred form the first paragraph that individuals are so `bonded' to multiple sex partners that they can rarely remember the exact number of people they had `slept with' before marriage. This probably accounts for their negligence in record keeping. Hence, they are arguably seen as irresponsible and unfaithful. Come to think of it, if you cannot in concrete terms assert the number of times you had engaged in sex before marriage, what makes your sex life different from that of a whore or sex maniac? The following are question-based analysis that `digs' into the number of times Individual A had had sex. In fact, they provide clues to enable the individual remember (and subsequently keep records of his or her activity) this engagement.

1.

When did you loose your virginity?
2.

How was the feeling?
3.

Did you continue to have this `feel'?
4.

Have you engaged in a one-night stand or for-the-moment sex before?
5.

How comfortable do you feel letting people know about your escapades? Does anyone know about your different sex affairs?
6.

For how long can you stay without having sex? If the timing is exceeded, can you afford to `do it' with anyone you come across?
7.

If you see the person responsible for your virginity loss, how do you sincerely see the individual?

The sincerity-driven answers given by you will determine, in a way, whether or not you are worth sexually being faithful to. It can be sated that the number of times individual A had engaged in sex before marriage is partly dependent on relationships engaged.

One thing is certain: the answer to the `question' is responsible for the obvious emergency of infidelity amongst individuals in various relationships.

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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Come To Think Of It, Sex!

COME TO THINK OF IT, SEX!

There are different views by people on the issue of sex.However, we will be considering sexual intercourse. To the male folk, sex is arguably seen as a means of reducing tension. It asserts the qualities of sex as the true appropriation of sex and should best appreciated at the discerned time_marriage.With somewhat funny sense of creativity, it contains didactic statements which are worth listening enabling sex performers to exercise the c-caution ideology.

The true qualities of sex are gotten from the its spell outs, S, E and X. The term SEX can be analyzed as:

S-Simply

E-Erotic

X-Xperience(Experience), where ‘x' has the same pronunciation as ‘Ex'.Therefore, the term ‘sex' has three major qualities namely

!)Simplicity

2) Eroticism

3) Experience

Simplicity: This refers to the ‘actions' of the God-given tools present in the male and female, that is, the PENIS and VAGINA respectively. Obviously, sexuality is one of the essential qualities of a man. Therefore, the ‘simplified indicator' a man uses to simply demonstrate his Male Acted Name is his reproductive PENIS.Creatively, the PENIS can be analyzed as the

P-‘Pointed'

E-Erection (Extension)

N-Notably

I-Instrumental (for)

S-Sex.On the other hand, it takes the consent of the Worth Of A Man's Worth, the woman for sexual intercourse to be complete. Similarly, the ‘device' she uses is her VAGINA. Therefore, the VAGINA can be creatively seen as the

V-‘Ventured'

A-Area, (the)

G-G-spot

I-Influence

N-Notably

A-Aroused.

Eroticism; Sex is erotic in nature. Eroticism is the factor responsible for the ‘actions' of the instrumental-for-sex male and female devices. Simply, it is the factor responsible for the simplicity nature of sex.The term EROTIC can be analyzed as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry. Precisely, it is a force that causes the dynamic action of the male and female ‘tools'. Also, EROTICISM can creatively be seen as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry, (the) Initiated Sex Motion.

Experience: This is product that results after the ‘coming together' of Simplicity and Eroticism. There are two kinds of experiences that reflect the inclinations of people towards sex.They are So Exciting Experience and Simply Exciting Experience. The former has to do with sexual freedom: seeking for sexual gratification by involving different people to the act at different times and spaces while the latter involves a limiting the number of partners engaged. Better yet, people whose sexual inclination reflects on the kind of experience exercise faithfulness instead of promiscuity and are less likely to contract diseases, feel insecure and doubtful and will have a better sense of sexual judgment.

Therefore, it is advisable to appreciate sex at the discerned time, marriage by adopting the habit chastity, though it involves hard work on your part. But considering the long-term benefits, it certainly worth the effort.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

ben4realla@yahoo.com



Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward


First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘postulation of the sex arithmetic'. This is a postulation which is intended to be a theory. Basically, it is a ‘computable' equation which explains or depicts s generally the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender have engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. Precisely, the ‘computable' equation has 13 interpretations which represent the sex lives of different individuals

At this juncture, the proof authenticating the potency of the intended theory will have to be shown. In this case, we take as case study Individual A. The validity of this equation is dependent on the following statements

1) It can be numerically determined if individual A can keep a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sexual activities.

2) It is dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged.

3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of 1. Note: ‘sex' refers to the direct physical relation between a man and woman

The ‘computable' equation which is a representation of the total number of times individual A(N) had engaged is: ,

N=No±N1±N2±N3±N4, where No represents the first_time sex experience had (with partner a, say), N1 represents the sex relations individual A had engaged in his or her subsequent relationships (with partners b, c,d, e , f… ), N3 represents the possible one-night stand/for-the-moment sex situations (with partners m, n, o, p…) and N4 represents the number of times individual A had engaged in sex with his or her would-be marital partner before marriage.

The interpretations are given as the following

1) N=No+N1+N2+N3+N4

2) N=No+N1+N2+N3

3) N=No+N1+N2

4) N=No+N1+N4

5) N=No+N2+N4

6) N=No+N3+N4

7) N=No+N1+N3

8) N=No+N2+N3

9) N=No+N1

10) N=No+N2

11) N=No+N3

12) N=No+N4

13) N=No

Secondly, ‘the way forward' refers to the consequences_ the varying degree of insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, chances of contracting diseases and others before and after marriage, proportional to the number of partners engaged. Obviously, it explains the ‘way outs' as abstinence, faithfulness and health caution as remedies to the various ‘entanglements', the interpreted sex lives

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

+2348062162220

Ben4realla@yahoo.com



About the book

Do you really want to know the true meaning of the word S-E-X? Are you ready to get yourself re-orientated about the dynamics of sex? Do you really want to know the science and art of sex? Have you ever pondered on the right appropriation of sex? To you, what is sex?
The book titled Come To Think Of It, Sex! Is a driven_ by_ inspiration interest which focuses on the true qualities of sex as the basis for its definition. It is pleasure _ filled, somewhat funny but posses didactic remarks on the appropriation of sex. It is a mini-sized book that has in its identity creatively designed chapters that give the reader not only a sense of appreciation but the urge to 'thirst' for more. The chapters in this book are designed such that they complemented each other. Its recognition is a 'pave-way' for the already-written-but-unpublished 'Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward' which puts forward an intended theory, a 'computable' equation on the number of times individuals had engaged in sex before marriage and what likely happens to them thereafter.

It is a must-have, must-read and must-keep ageless guide which will be essentially useful to young adults. married people and growing teenagers(18 years of age, at least).Therefore,if you are 18 and above, this book is for you!
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