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Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.
Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.
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Thursday, May 26, 2011
Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? (introduction and chapter sample)
Introduction
The classic, Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? Is an interest that focuses on what make the issues of sex responsible for demise in relationships, estranged and divorced marital status by investigating the apparently considered trivial yardsticks and proffers rightly faithfulness approach to individuals who are in various relationships or married.
It is a must-read, must-have and must-keep work piece that has points, analogous to chapters, the trivialized yardsticks. The points are in the form of questions, striking phrases, and profound expressions. The points include the following:
Point1: How many times have you engaged in sex before marriage?
Point2: How many relationships have you been in, what kind of relationships were they and what led to the `break-ups'?
Point 3: In The relationship you are in presently, do you still have any crush on any you have dated? Are you secretly involved in any illicit affair with any of them, despite your current relationship?
Point 4: If you are married or in a relationship, would you compromise the faithfulness in the institution you are in, if given a tempting but favourable situation such that no one would know what really happened until the world ends?
Point 5: Men, would you be faithful to your wives or wives-to-be, despite ageing physical appearance and chose to ignore `sizzling' attractive young women?
Point6: The only physically sacred possession of a woman is her virginity…
Point 7: Women, would you still uphold faithfulness to your husbands or husbands to-be, despite infidelity on their part or their not being able to perform?
Point 8: The natural law of sowing and reaping is real.
Point 9: The best time to appreciating sexual faithfulness is marriage…
The points mentioned are seemingly seen as trivial yardsticks. The (sincere) answers and follow-up of point 9 will respectively determine whether or not an individual is faithful and level of one's faithfulness.
If you really want to swim through the water of a successful relationship and marriage completely, then, you must be ready to get thoroughly soaked in the complete questioning and sincerity-based answers to questions that appeal to you.
Point One
At this juncture, it is important to assert this: in a relationship or marriage, there are two virtues that bind individuals together; love and sex. The former is a product of heartfelt affection reflected as the outward value placed on by both parties while the latter is genuinely an expression (in form of direct physical contact) of the value placed by both parties.
Point 1 is a questionnaire that inquires into the sexual fidelity of an individual. It could be you! However, we take individual A as case study. Individual A could be a male or female. The question is asked: `individual A, How many times did you engage in sex before this time'; marriage? You will be amazed at the likely responses you would get. Individual A may not answer, believing you want to infringe on his or her privacy. Individual A would likely give you a questionable numeric figure, taking your question with levity. Interestingly, Individual A may respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you!
If sex is an engaged activity, should it been seen as an off-the-record event, documented, kept as secret for a while (but think of this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or a thing to be remembered when you are in your grave!?
If you want it to be kept as secret for a while, t hen think of the question asked. The person you had it with could decide to unveil to his or her world what really happened. In time, this it may bring implications. Remember, the wall has ears.
If it should be remembered when you are in your grave, what an exclamation it is. No one to share this `burden' with? Frankly, you are in a world of your own.
If it is worth documenting (and remembering), then you should be congratulated! You are about exercising empirical knowledge on individuals (the wise ones; enabling them learn what can vaguely be thought or taught.
A number of times individual A had engaged in sex before the `time' or marriage is by number of fathomable, provided there is an up-to-date record or documentation. Awkward, isn't it? Take a cue from this:
A serious-minded businessman keeps records of his daily transactions or business activities. No matter his schedule and volume of transaction, he knows the essence of keeping records and documenting them for future references. Otherwise, he is considered an irresponsible individual who does not know the worth of what he is doing and is in the business just to dilly-ally his time. Similarly, keeping records of your sex activities will none or the other define your sex disposition (one of the determinants of your sexual fidelity), if not now but in future.
Unfortunately, many individuals are guilty of this. It can be inferred form the first paragraph that individuals are so `bonded' to multiple sex partners that they can rarely remember the exact number of people they had `slept with' before marriage. This probably accounts for their negligence in record keeping. Hence, they are arguably seen as irresponsible and unfaithful. Come to think of it, if you cannot in concrete terms assert the number of times you had engaged in sex before marriage, what makes your sex life different from that of a whore or sex maniac? The following are question-based analysis that `digs' into the number of times Individual A had had sex. In fact, they provide clues to enable the individual remember (and subsequently keep records of his or her activity) this engagement.
1.
When did you loose your virginity?
2.
How was the feeling?
3.
Did you continue to have this `feel'?
4.
Have you engaged in a one-night stand or for-the-moment sex before?
5.
How comfortable do you feel letting people know about your escapades? Does anyone know about your different sex affairs?
6.
For how long can you stay without having sex? If the timing is exceeded, can you afford to `do it' with anyone you come across?
7.
If you see the person responsible for your virginity loss, how do you sincerely see the individual?
The sincerity-driven answers given by you will determine, in a way, whether or not you are worth sexually being faithful to. It can be sated that the number of times individual A had engaged in sex before marriage is partly dependent on relationships engaged.
One thing is certain: the answer to the `question' is responsible for the obvious emergency of infidelity amongst individuals in various relationships.
ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
The classic, Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? Is an interest that focuses on what make the issues of sex responsible for demise in relationships, estranged and divorced marital status by investigating the apparently considered trivial yardsticks and proffers rightly faithfulness approach to individuals who are in various relationships or married.
It is a must-read, must-have and must-keep work piece that has points, analogous to chapters, the trivialized yardsticks. The points are in the form of questions, striking phrases, and profound expressions. The points include the following:
Point1: How many times have you engaged in sex before marriage?
Point2: How many relationships have you been in, what kind of relationships were they and what led to the `break-ups'?
Point 3: In The relationship you are in presently, do you still have any crush on any you have dated? Are you secretly involved in any illicit affair with any of them, despite your current relationship?
Point 4: If you are married or in a relationship, would you compromise the faithfulness in the institution you are in, if given a tempting but favourable situation such that no one would know what really happened until the world ends?
Point 5: Men, would you be faithful to your wives or wives-to-be, despite ageing physical appearance and chose to ignore `sizzling' attractive young women?
Point6: The only physically sacred possession of a woman is her virginity…
Point 7: Women, would you still uphold faithfulness to your husbands or husbands to-be, despite infidelity on their part or their not being able to perform?
Point 8: The natural law of sowing and reaping is real.
Point 9: The best time to appreciating sexual faithfulness is marriage…
The points mentioned are seemingly seen as trivial yardsticks. The (sincere) answers and follow-up of point 9 will respectively determine whether or not an individual is faithful and level of one's faithfulness.
If you really want to swim through the water of a successful relationship and marriage completely, then, you must be ready to get thoroughly soaked in the complete questioning and sincerity-based answers to questions that appeal to you.
Point One
At this juncture, it is important to assert this: in a relationship or marriage, there are two virtues that bind individuals together; love and sex. The former is a product of heartfelt affection reflected as the outward value placed on by both parties while the latter is genuinely an expression (in form of direct physical contact) of the value placed by both parties.
Point 1 is a questionnaire that inquires into the sexual fidelity of an individual. It could be you! However, we take individual A as case study. Individual A could be a male or female. The question is asked: `individual A, How many times did you engage in sex before this time'; marriage? You will be amazed at the likely responses you would get. Individual A may not answer, believing you want to infringe on his or her privacy. Individual A would likely give you a questionable numeric figure, taking your question with levity. Interestingly, Individual A may respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you!
If sex is an engaged activity, should it been seen as an off-the-record event, documented, kept as secret for a while (but think of this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or a thing to be remembered when you are in your grave!?
If you want it to be kept as secret for a while, t hen think of the question asked. The person you had it with could decide to unveil to his or her world what really happened. In time, this it may bring implications. Remember, the wall has ears.
If it should be remembered when you are in your grave, what an exclamation it is. No one to share this `burden' with? Frankly, you are in a world of your own.
If it is worth documenting (and remembering), then you should be congratulated! You are about exercising empirical knowledge on individuals (the wise ones; enabling them learn what can vaguely be thought or taught.
A number of times individual A had engaged in sex before the `time' or marriage is by number of fathomable, provided there is an up-to-date record or documentation. Awkward, isn't it? Take a cue from this:
A serious-minded businessman keeps records of his daily transactions or business activities. No matter his schedule and volume of transaction, he knows the essence of keeping records and documenting them for future references. Otherwise, he is considered an irresponsible individual who does not know the worth of what he is doing and is in the business just to dilly-ally his time. Similarly, keeping records of your sex activities will none or the other define your sex disposition (one of the determinants of your sexual fidelity), if not now but in future.
Unfortunately, many individuals are guilty of this. It can be inferred form the first paragraph that individuals are so `bonded' to multiple sex partners that they can rarely remember the exact number of people they had `slept with' before marriage. This probably accounts for their negligence in record keeping. Hence, they are arguably seen as irresponsible and unfaithful. Come to think of it, if you cannot in concrete terms assert the number of times you had engaged in sex before marriage, what makes your sex life different from that of a whore or sex maniac? The following are question-based analysis that `digs' into the number of times Individual A had had sex. In fact, they provide clues to enable the individual remember (and subsequently keep records of his or her activity) this engagement.
1.
When did you loose your virginity?
2.
How was the feeling?
3.
Did you continue to have this `feel'?
4.
Have you engaged in a one-night stand or for-the-moment sex before?
5.
How comfortable do you feel letting people know about your escapades? Does anyone know about your different sex affairs?
6.
For how long can you stay without having sex? If the timing is exceeded, can you afford to `do it' with anyone you come across?
7.
If you see the person responsible for your virginity loss, how do you sincerely see the individual?
The sincerity-driven answers given by you will determine, in a way, whether or not you are worth sexually being faithful to. It can be sated that the number of times individual A had engaged in sex before marriage is partly dependent on relationships engaged.
One thing is certain: the answer to the `question' is responsible for the obvious emergency of infidelity amongst individuals in various relationships.
ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
My Kind Of Man, My Kind Of Woman (Introduction and chapter sample)
Introduction
The classic is a rare-to-find two-titled work piece that extensively sheds light on criteria many men and women use to ascertain their spouses' fitness for relationships and marriages and vividly identifies their flaws. A second-to-none gem, it goes a long way in affirming the should-be kind of man and/or woman, though based on choice.
My Kind Of Man and My Kind of Woman are a must-read and must-have materials that clearly recognize reasons many marriages fail and relationships decline. Yet, it asserts to interested and women their right kind of spouses.
In this book, readers will get to appreciate the essence of having the right partners for a life-long union or worth-remembering relationship leading marriage. It is a worth considering masterpiece. Irrespective of race, status or culture, it is a sure-bet for successful relationships.
The come-to-stay interest elucidates seven major criteria (each) that constitute reasons many relationships and marriages fail to work out. They are arranged in the following formats:
My Kind Of Woman
1.
Chapter 1: Wealth/Money
2.
Chapter 2: Responsibility/Maturity
3.
Chapter 3: Background
4.
Chapter 4: Appearance and Intellect
5.
Chapter 6: Sexuality
6.
Chapter 7: Defense
Also, for My Kind Of Woman,
1.
Chapter 1: Appearance
2.
Chapter 2: Sexuality
3.
Chapter3: Wealth/Money/Financial independence
4.
Chapter 4: Intellect
5.
Chapter 5: Background
6.
Chapter 6: Behavioral disposition
7.
Chapter 7:Level of handling home affairs (matters)
Readers will certainly come to the realization that though they are worth being termed `criteria', turn-outs of these qualities in many relationships and marriages have not yielded anticipates success stories. Nonetheless, it gives a clear-cut suggestion of who their right spouses should be (with irrefutable reasons)
The concluding part of this timeless relationship and marriage guide has a striking statement, integrating the should-be kind of man and woman.
Every chapter in each title explains the interesting benefits of considering the qualities as criteria for relationships and marriages, explores their weaknesses and asserts the `right things'. What are those `right things'?
Particularly helpful to aspiring (young) Christian brothers and sisters, this classic will undoubtedly help them rightly position them to locate their kind of spouses. Also, those who are seeking for good relationships and marriages will find this work piece interesting and practicable. Moreover, would-be married couples will get to appreciate the essence of this profound work.
My Kind Of Man
Chapter one
When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?
Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them'. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!
A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she's in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?
The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:
Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world's prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society's `who is who' came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.
Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns' as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince's financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.
It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously catering for herself, Vince and her two-month- old baby, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia's strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.
As time progressed, Lucia couldn't afford to unnecessary couldn't afford to foot the home's utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.
As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?
More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they've been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl' to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.
However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries'.
An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil' by prioritizing wisdom; embracing true love instead of money.
Here, the term of `wealth' is synonymous with `money'.
My Kind Of Woman
Chapter One
Appearance
By nature, men are generally moved by what they see. The masculine gender is wired by sight. Hence, the reason for the criterion, appearance. Men are attracted to their opposite sex by virtue of appearance.
Therefore, do not be surprised when you hear most of them say: `she must be beautiful', `she must have the right curves; perfect shape and in all, have all-complete physique', `she must be vey attractive' and so on. This is the first thing that draws the attention of a man to a woman and becomes a threshold or foundation for further build-ups of an eventual union.
Knowing this natural fact, a number of `wise' women have taken to modern-day fashion trends to portray who they are a shadow of-modest or provocative outlook. Obviously, their appearance becomes a field; pulling or gravitating the desired men to them to their intents.
Afterall, a good-looking woman is the dream of a typical carnal or sense-ruled man. John, 45, has this to say; `I got attracted to my girlfriend, now my wife because of her physique. It did go a long way in strengthening our relationship. In no time, we clicked! And now, we're happily married with two lovely children'.
On the contrary, good appearance has been used as bait by women to engage men whose criterion is reflected on the threshold in a union of obnoxious abyss. A lot of men are really oblivious of the fact that looks are deceiving and not all women who are good looking portray the good-looking image. Stanley, 32, who married Lucinda, 31, made an interesting comment of the outcome: `If you'd told me Lucinda will be a thorn in my flesh someday, be rest assured I'd keep you at armslenght. At prima fascie, I felt deeply in love with her because of her stunning looks. Then, after much deliberation, she responded to my proposal of marriage. We went on a date and all other things kept going well as planned. One thing led to the other and we soon got married. It was after a year we got married I realized the `were-wolf' behaviour of my wife as not only a nag but also an unrepentant parasite. Her stunning looks were blindfolding and I happen to be the unfortunate victim. Now, I'm at the point of no going back in my marriage'.
An ever-chaste born again brother works with the biblical consciousness; `man looks at the appearance but God looks at the heart'. Rather than pay strict attentions to appearance, he's simply focused at intents, a reflection of the mind's quality. Knowing the mind of God, he reciprocates the rendition 'as he is, so we are on earth' in his dealings with his spouse.
The classic is a rare-to-find two-titled work piece that extensively sheds light on criteria many men and women use to ascertain their spouses' fitness for relationships and marriages and vividly identifies their flaws. A second-to-none gem, it goes a long way in affirming the should-be kind of man and/or woman, though based on choice.
My Kind Of Man and My Kind of Woman are a must-read and must-have materials that clearly recognize reasons many marriages fail and relationships decline. Yet, it asserts to interested and women their right kind of spouses.
In this book, readers will get to appreciate the essence of having the right partners for a life-long union or worth-remembering relationship leading marriage. It is a worth considering masterpiece. Irrespective of race, status or culture, it is a sure-bet for successful relationships.
The come-to-stay interest elucidates seven major criteria (each) that constitute reasons many relationships and marriages fail to work out. They are arranged in the following formats:
My Kind Of Woman
1.
Chapter 1: Wealth/Money
2.
Chapter 2: Responsibility/Maturity
3.
Chapter 3: Background
4.
Chapter 4: Appearance and Intellect
5.
Chapter 6: Sexuality
6.
Chapter 7: Defense
Also, for My Kind Of Woman,
1.
Chapter 1: Appearance
2.
Chapter 2: Sexuality
3.
Chapter3: Wealth/Money/Financial independence
4.
Chapter 4: Intellect
5.
Chapter 5: Background
6.
Chapter 6: Behavioral disposition
7.
Chapter 7:Level of handling home affairs (matters)
Readers will certainly come to the realization that though they are worth being termed `criteria', turn-outs of these qualities in many relationships and marriages have not yielded anticipates success stories. Nonetheless, it gives a clear-cut suggestion of who their right spouses should be (with irrefutable reasons)
The concluding part of this timeless relationship and marriage guide has a striking statement, integrating the should-be kind of man and woman.
Every chapter in each title explains the interesting benefits of considering the qualities as criteria for relationships and marriages, explores their weaknesses and asserts the `right things'. What are those `right things'?
Particularly helpful to aspiring (young) Christian brothers and sisters, this classic will undoubtedly help them rightly position them to locate their kind of spouses. Also, those who are seeking for good relationships and marriages will find this work piece interesting and practicable. Moreover, would-be married couples will get to appreciate the essence of this profound work.
My Kind Of Man
Chapter one
When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?
Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them'. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!
A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she's in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?
The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:
Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world's prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society's `who is who' came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.
Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns' as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince's financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.
It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously catering for herself, Vince and her two-month- old baby, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia's strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.
As time progressed, Lucia couldn't afford to unnecessary couldn't afford to foot the home's utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.
As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?
More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they've been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl' to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.
However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries'.
An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil' by prioritizing wisdom; embracing true love instead of money.
Here, the term of `wealth' is synonymous with `money'.
My Kind Of Woman
Chapter One
Appearance
By nature, men are generally moved by what they see. The masculine gender is wired by sight. Hence, the reason for the criterion, appearance. Men are attracted to their opposite sex by virtue of appearance.
Therefore, do not be surprised when you hear most of them say: `she must be beautiful', `she must have the right curves; perfect shape and in all, have all-complete physique', `she must be vey attractive' and so on. This is the first thing that draws the attention of a man to a woman and becomes a threshold or foundation for further build-ups of an eventual union.
Knowing this natural fact, a number of `wise' women have taken to modern-day fashion trends to portray who they are a shadow of-modest or provocative outlook. Obviously, their appearance becomes a field; pulling or gravitating the desired men to them to their intents.
Afterall, a good-looking woman is the dream of a typical carnal or sense-ruled man. John, 45, has this to say; `I got attracted to my girlfriend, now my wife because of her physique. It did go a long way in strengthening our relationship. In no time, we clicked! And now, we're happily married with two lovely children'.
On the contrary, good appearance has been used as bait by women to engage men whose criterion is reflected on the threshold in a union of obnoxious abyss. A lot of men are really oblivious of the fact that looks are deceiving and not all women who are good looking portray the good-looking image. Stanley, 32, who married Lucinda, 31, made an interesting comment of the outcome: `If you'd told me Lucinda will be a thorn in my flesh someday, be rest assured I'd keep you at armslenght. At prima fascie, I felt deeply in love with her because of her stunning looks. Then, after much deliberation, she responded to my proposal of marriage. We went on a date and all other things kept going well as planned. One thing led to the other and we soon got married. It was after a year we got married I realized the `were-wolf' behaviour of my wife as not only a nag but also an unrepentant parasite. Her stunning looks were blindfolding and I happen to be the unfortunate victim. Now, I'm at the point of no going back in my marriage'.
An ever-chaste born again brother works with the biblical consciousness; `man looks at the appearance but God looks at the heart'. Rather than pay strict attentions to appearance, he's simply focused at intents, a reflection of the mind's quality. Knowing the mind of God, he reciprocates the rendition 'as he is, so we are on earth' in his dealings with his spouse.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
An Overview Of Engi(o)sophy...a phase of true modernization(extract)
Humanity's mandate by God; the emblem of all viable works of nature is to exert its all-encompassing nature by unraveling the mysteries of the dynamics of all entities and their efficacies. In other words, the basis of existence of humanity is explained by its calling; applying the god character to use: inter-relating the dynamics of all works of nature to commensurate its existence.
In response to the asserted mandate, humanity, over the years, has devised time – influenced standards and methods to continually leave up to anticipation. As a matter of fact, humanity to a large extent, believes that it has exerted the "god of the universe" quality to recognize and act on the unveiled mysteries of nature. The various norms, values (ethics), endeavours, patterns, and skills are the methods and standards employed by humanity in response to its mandate.
However, humanity had over time depicted a discrepancy in its calling. Undoubtedly, it has prioritized certain efficacious entities discovered and acted on over others thereby making them seemingly less important. Certainly, the consequences are well spelt out. How?
Consider a farmland where there are different crops to be cultivated. The laissez-a-faire attitude of the farmer in systematically arranging (by spacing) his crops will create an unhealthy harvest as an unfavourable "survival of the fittest" competition arises amongst the cultivated crops thereby denying the relatively weak crops the necessary factors of growth. Consequently, some die while the living but denied ones suffer from different forms of abnormal physiological or morphological diseases. Whereas, care exercised by the farmer should have prevented the chance of "this harsh" competition from occurring.
Similarly, the standards, ethics, and other recognized methodologies developed by humanity to actualize its calling have unequivocally faced not-good challenges. These interests have prioritized the efficacies of certain human-developed discoveries and not defined others. In today's world, multifarious socio-economic, cultural and political set backs are as a result of inequality of developed strategies by humanity.
The questions "is there a way out of these?" and "if there is, which way?" arise. No doubt, there is a need to re-defining the human recognition of interests. How?
Precisely, re-defining the human recognition of interests which as we will see later, is no doubt a phase of true modernization. The come-to-stay coined term "Engi(o)sophy" surfaces to serve this purpose. To begin with, what is the meaning of Engi(o)sophy?
As asserted, Engi(o)sophy is a projected come-to-stay development aimed at re-defining the human recognition of interests which is a phase of true modernization.
Engi (o) sophy is theoretically a derived product resulting from the fusion of engineering and philosophy. It can be likened to a mulatto being that results from the fusion of the gametes of a Caucasian lady and Negroid man. :
Literally, Engi(o)sophy views engineering as a present continuous term, that is, a precisely creative process and philosophy as intricacies or principles. Therefore, Engi(o)sophy literally can be viewed as "continuum of intricacies". By continuum, we mean continued improvement or modification of. Interestingly, Engi(o)sophy cuts across all disciplines saliently unveiling the practiced but not spelt out engineering and philosophy. The literal meaning of Engi(o)sophy is considered. In other words, Engi(o)sophy is unusually defining but rightly expressing philosophy and engineering in all endeavours of human existence.
* Historically, the new concept derives its name from the words "Engi" (as in Engineering), meaning ‘creative' and (o)sophy (as in philosophy), meaning "wisdom". Therefore, Engi(o)sophy is simply "creative wisdom". It can be analyzed as:
Engineering + Philosophy = Engineering-Philosophy. However, considering the "fusion", "Engi" + (o)sophy" = "Engi(o)sophy", the surest possibility! Why the bracket signs on "o", one of the spell-outs of Engi(o)sophy and why is it the surest possibility?
* Engi(o)sophy, as applied to human endeavours, is the theoretical equivalent of practice. The word "sophy" originates from the Greek word "sophia" meaning wisdom, precisely, theoretical wisdom. Irrespective of discipline, Engi(o)sophy is the theory of its practice.
* Engi(o)sophy is a pictured come-to-stay concept which asserts unequivocally the fact that all human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) are an appreciation of creative wisdom. As a matter of fact, they derive their source from the term "creative wisdom". It is a fact that integrate all fields of human discipline to itself; having all disciplines answer the name Engi(o)sophy in its recognition because it is a translation of the (original) source of all human disciplines, creative wisdom. All disciplines are wisely created by man and are continually improved using time –influenced aids (or technologies) for the continued recognition and benefit of mankind.
.Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
ben4realla@yahoo.com
mrbenisreal.blogspot.com
About the book
Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.
Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.
Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.
To get your copy of the book,An Overview Of Engi(o)sophy...a phase of true modernization, follow the link or
OR
copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42767
In response to the asserted mandate, humanity, over the years, has devised time – influenced standards and methods to continually leave up to anticipation. As a matter of fact, humanity to a large extent, believes that it has exerted the "god of the universe" quality to recognize and act on the unveiled mysteries of nature. The various norms, values (ethics), endeavours, patterns, and skills are the methods and standards employed by humanity in response to its mandate.
However, humanity had over time depicted a discrepancy in its calling. Undoubtedly, it has prioritized certain efficacious entities discovered and acted on over others thereby making them seemingly less important. Certainly, the consequences are well spelt out. How?
Consider a farmland where there are different crops to be cultivated. The laissez-a-faire attitude of the farmer in systematically arranging (by spacing) his crops will create an unhealthy harvest as an unfavourable "survival of the fittest" competition arises amongst the cultivated crops thereby denying the relatively weak crops the necessary factors of growth. Consequently, some die while the living but denied ones suffer from different forms of abnormal physiological or morphological diseases. Whereas, care exercised by the farmer should have prevented the chance of "this harsh" competition from occurring.
Similarly, the standards, ethics, and other recognized methodologies developed by humanity to actualize its calling have unequivocally faced not-good challenges. These interests have prioritized the efficacies of certain human-developed discoveries and not defined others. In today's world, multifarious socio-economic, cultural and political set backs are as a result of inequality of developed strategies by humanity.
The questions "is there a way out of these?" and "if there is, which way?" arise. No doubt, there is a need to re-defining the human recognition of interests. How?
Precisely, re-defining the human recognition of interests which as we will see later, is no doubt a phase of true modernization. The come-to-stay coined term "Engi(o)sophy" surfaces to serve this purpose. To begin with, what is the meaning of Engi(o)sophy?
As asserted, Engi(o)sophy is a projected come-to-stay development aimed at re-defining the human recognition of interests which is a phase of true modernization.
Engi (o) sophy is theoretically a derived product resulting from the fusion of engineering and philosophy. It can be likened to a mulatto being that results from the fusion of the gametes of a Caucasian lady and Negroid man. :
Literally, Engi(o)sophy views engineering as a present continuous term, that is, a precisely creative process and philosophy as intricacies or principles. Therefore, Engi(o)sophy literally can be viewed as "continuum of intricacies". By continuum, we mean continued improvement or modification of. Interestingly, Engi(o)sophy cuts across all disciplines saliently unveiling the practiced but not spelt out engineering and philosophy. The literal meaning of Engi(o)sophy is considered. In other words, Engi(o)sophy is unusually defining but rightly expressing philosophy and engineering in all endeavours of human existence.
* Historically, the new concept derives its name from the words "Engi" (as in Engineering), meaning ‘creative' and (o)sophy (as in philosophy), meaning "wisdom". Therefore, Engi(o)sophy is simply "creative wisdom". It can be analyzed as:
Engineering + Philosophy = Engineering-Philosophy. However, considering the "fusion", "Engi" + (o)sophy" = "Engi(o)sophy", the surest possibility! Why the bracket signs on "o", one of the spell-outs of Engi(o)sophy and why is it the surest possibility?
* Engi(o)sophy, as applied to human endeavours, is the theoretical equivalent of practice. The word "sophy" originates from the Greek word "sophia" meaning wisdom, precisely, theoretical wisdom. Irrespective of discipline, Engi(o)sophy is the theory of its practice.
* Engi(o)sophy is a pictured come-to-stay concept which asserts unequivocally the fact that all human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) are an appreciation of creative wisdom. As a matter of fact, they derive their source from the term "creative wisdom". It is a fact that integrate all fields of human discipline to itself; having all disciplines answer the name Engi(o)sophy in its recognition because it is a translation of the (original) source of all human disciplines, creative wisdom. All disciplines are wisely created by man and are continually improved using time –influenced aids (or technologies) for the continued recognition and benefit of mankind.
.Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
ben4realla@yahoo.com
mrbenisreal.blogspot.com
About the book
Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.
Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.
Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.
To get your copy of the book,An Overview Of Engi(o)sophy...a phase of true modernization, follow the link or
OR
copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42767
Come To Think Of It, Sex!
COME TO THINK OF IT, SEX!
There are different views by people on the issue of sex.However, we will be considering sexual intercourse. To the male folk, sex is arguably seen as a means of reducing tension. It asserts the qualities of sex as the true appropriation of sex and should best appreciated at the discerned time_marriage.With somewhat funny sense of creativity, it contains didactic statements which are worth listening enabling sex performers to exercise the c-caution ideology.
The true qualities of sex are gotten from the its spell outs, S, E and X. The term SEX can be analyzed as:
S-Simply
E-Erotic
X-Xperience(Experience), where ‘x' has the same pronunciation as ‘Ex'.Therefore, the term ‘sex' has three major qualities namely
!)Simplicity
2) Eroticism
3) Experience
Simplicity: This refers to the ‘actions' of the God-given tools present in the male and female, that is, the PENIS and VAGINA respectively. Obviously, sexuality is one of the essential qualities of a man. Therefore, the ‘simplified indicator' a man uses to simply demonstrate his Male Acted Name is his reproductive PENIS.Creatively, the PENIS can be analyzed as the
P-‘Pointed'
E-Erection (Extension)
N-Notably
I-Instrumental (for)
S-Sex.On the other hand, it takes the consent of the Worth Of A Man's Worth, the woman for sexual intercourse to be complete. Similarly, the ‘device' she uses is her VAGINA. Therefore, the VAGINA can be creatively seen as the
V-‘Ventured'
A-Area, (the)
G-G-spot
I-Influence
N-Notably
A-Aroused.
Eroticism; Sex is erotic in nature. Eroticism is the factor responsible for the ‘actions' of the instrumental-for-sex male and female devices. Simply, it is the factor responsible for the simplicity nature of sex.The term EROTIC can be analyzed as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry. Precisely, it is a force that causes the dynamic action of the male and female ‘tools'. Also, EROTICISM can creatively be seen as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry, (the) Initiated Sex Motion.
Experience: This is product that results after the ‘coming together' of Simplicity and Eroticism. There are two kinds of experiences that reflect the inclinations of people towards sex.They are So Exciting Experience and Simply Exciting Experience. The former has to do with sexual freedom: seeking for sexual gratification by involving different people to the act at different times and spaces while the latter involves a limiting the number of partners engaged. Better yet, people whose sexual inclination reflects on the kind of experience exercise faithfulness instead of promiscuity and are less likely to contract diseases, feel insecure and doubtful and will have a better sense of sexual judgment.
Therefore, it is advisable to appreciate sex at the discerned time, marriage by adopting the habit chastity, though it involves hard work on your part. But considering the long-term benefits, it certainly worth the effort.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
ben4realla@yahoo.com
Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward
First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘postulation of the sex arithmetic'. This is a postulation which is intended to be a theory. Basically, it is a ‘computable' equation which explains or depicts s generally the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender have engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. Precisely, the ‘computable' equation has 13 interpretations which represent the sex lives of different individuals
At this juncture, the proof authenticating the potency of the intended theory will have to be shown. In this case, we take as case study Individual A. The validity of this equation is dependent on the following statements
1) It can be numerically determined if individual A can keep a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sexual activities.
2) It is dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged.
3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of 1. Note: ‘sex' refers to the direct physical relation between a man and woman
The ‘computable' equation which is a representation of the total number of times individual A(N) had engaged is: ,
N=No±N1±N2±N3±N4, where No represents the first_time sex experience had (with partner a, say), N1 represents the sex relations individual A had engaged in his or her subsequent relationships (with partners b, c,d, e , f… ), N3 represents the possible one-night stand/for-the-moment sex situations (with partners m, n, o, p…) and N4 represents the number of times individual A had engaged in sex with his or her would-be marital partner before marriage.
The interpretations are given as the following
1) N=No+N1+N2+N3+N4
2) N=No+N1+N2+N3
3) N=No+N1+N2
4) N=No+N1+N4
5) N=No+N2+N4
6) N=No+N3+N4
7) N=No+N1+N3
8) N=No+N2+N3
9) N=No+N1
10) N=No+N2
11) N=No+N3
12) N=No+N4
13) N=No
Secondly, ‘the way forward' refers to the consequences_ the varying degree of insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, chances of contracting diseases and others before and after marriage, proportional to the number of partners engaged. Obviously, it explains the ‘way outs' as abstinence, faithfulness and health caution as remedies to the various ‘entanglements', the interpreted sex lives
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
About the book
Do you really want to know the true meaning of the word S-E-X? Are you ready to get yourself re-orientated about the dynamics of sex? Do you really want to know the science and art of sex? Have you ever pondered on the right appropriation of sex? To you, what is sex?
The book titled Come To Think Of It, Sex! Is a driven_ by_ inspiration interest which focuses on the true qualities of sex as the basis for its definition. It is pleasure _ filled, somewhat funny but posses didactic remarks on the appropriation of sex. It is a mini-sized book that has in its identity creatively designed chapters that give the reader not only a sense of appreciation but the urge to 'thirst' for more. The chapters in this book are designed such that they complemented each other. Its recognition is a 'pave-way' for the already-written-but-unpublished 'Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward' which puts forward an intended theory, a 'computable' equation on the number of times individuals had engaged in sex before marriage and what likely happens to them thereafter.
It is a must-have, must-read and must-keep ageless guide which will be essentially useful to young adults. married people and growing teenagers(18 years of age, at least).Therefore,if you are 18 and above, this book is for you!
Click on this link to get a copy of this classic
OR copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42780
There are different views by people on the issue of sex.However, we will be considering sexual intercourse. To the male folk, sex is arguably seen as a means of reducing tension. It asserts the qualities of sex as the true appropriation of sex and should best appreciated at the discerned time_marriage.With somewhat funny sense of creativity, it contains didactic statements which are worth listening enabling sex performers to exercise the c-caution ideology.
The true qualities of sex are gotten from the its spell outs, S, E and X. The term SEX can be analyzed as:
S-Simply
E-Erotic
X-Xperience(Experience), where ‘x' has the same pronunciation as ‘Ex'.Therefore, the term ‘sex' has three major qualities namely
!)Simplicity
2) Eroticism
3) Experience
Simplicity: This refers to the ‘actions' of the God-given tools present in the male and female, that is, the PENIS and VAGINA respectively. Obviously, sexuality is one of the essential qualities of a man. Therefore, the ‘simplified indicator' a man uses to simply demonstrate his Male Acted Name is his reproductive PENIS.Creatively, the PENIS can be analyzed as the
P-‘Pointed'
E-Erection (Extension)
N-Notably
I-Instrumental (for)
S-Sex.On the other hand, it takes the consent of the Worth Of A Man's Worth, the woman for sexual intercourse to be complete. Similarly, the ‘device' she uses is her VAGINA. Therefore, the VAGINA can be creatively seen as the
V-‘Ventured'
A-Area, (the)
G-G-spot
I-Influence
N-Notably
A-Aroused.
Eroticism; Sex is erotic in nature. Eroticism is the factor responsible for the ‘actions' of the instrumental-for-sex male and female devices. Simply, it is the factor responsible for the simplicity nature of sex.The term EROTIC can be analyzed as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry. Precisely, it is a force that causes the dynamic action of the male and female ‘tools'. Also, EROTICISM can creatively be seen as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry, (the) Initiated Sex Motion.
Experience: This is product that results after the ‘coming together' of Simplicity and Eroticism. There are two kinds of experiences that reflect the inclinations of people towards sex.They are So Exciting Experience and Simply Exciting Experience. The former has to do with sexual freedom: seeking for sexual gratification by involving different people to the act at different times and spaces while the latter involves a limiting the number of partners engaged. Better yet, people whose sexual inclination reflects on the kind of experience exercise faithfulness instead of promiscuity and are less likely to contract diseases, feel insecure and doubtful and will have a better sense of sexual judgment.
Therefore, it is advisable to appreciate sex at the discerned time, marriage by adopting the habit chastity, though it involves hard work on your part. But considering the long-term benefits, it certainly worth the effort.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
ben4realla@yahoo.com
Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward
First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘postulation of the sex arithmetic'. This is a postulation which is intended to be a theory. Basically, it is a ‘computable' equation which explains or depicts s generally the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender have engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. Precisely, the ‘computable' equation has 13 interpretations which represent the sex lives of different individuals
At this juncture, the proof authenticating the potency of the intended theory will have to be shown. In this case, we take as case study Individual A. The validity of this equation is dependent on the following statements
1) It can be numerically determined if individual A can keep a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sexual activities.
2) It is dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged.
3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of 1. Note: ‘sex' refers to the direct physical relation between a man and woman
The ‘computable' equation which is a representation of the total number of times individual A(N) had engaged is: ,
N=No±N1±N2±N3±N4, where No represents the first_time sex experience had (with partner a, say), N1 represents the sex relations individual A had engaged in his or her subsequent relationships (with partners b, c,d, e , f… ), N3 represents the possible one-night stand/for-the-moment sex situations (with partners m, n, o, p…) and N4 represents the number of times individual A had engaged in sex with his or her would-be marital partner before marriage.
The interpretations are given as the following
1) N=No+N1+N2+N3+N4
2) N=No+N1+N2+N3
3) N=No+N1+N2
4) N=No+N1+N4
5) N=No+N2+N4
6) N=No+N3+N4
7) N=No+N1+N3
8) N=No+N2+N3
9) N=No+N1
10) N=No+N2
11) N=No+N3
12) N=No+N4
13) N=No
Secondly, ‘the way forward' refers to the consequences_ the varying degree of insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, chances of contracting diseases and others before and after marriage, proportional to the number of partners engaged. Obviously, it explains the ‘way outs' as abstinence, faithfulness and health caution as remedies to the various ‘entanglements', the interpreted sex lives
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
About the book
Do you really want to know the true meaning of the word S-E-X? Are you ready to get yourself re-orientated about the dynamics of sex? Do you really want to know the science and art of sex? Have you ever pondered on the right appropriation of sex? To you, what is sex?
The book titled Come To Think Of It, Sex! Is a driven_ by_ inspiration interest which focuses on the true qualities of sex as the basis for its definition. It is pleasure _ filled, somewhat funny but posses didactic remarks on the appropriation of sex. It is a mini-sized book that has in its identity creatively designed chapters that give the reader not only a sense of appreciation but the urge to 'thirst' for more. The chapters in this book are designed such that they complemented each other. Its recognition is a 'pave-way' for the already-written-but-unpublished 'Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward' which puts forward an intended theory, a 'computable' equation on the number of times individuals had engaged in sex before marriage and what likely happens to them thereafter.
It is a must-have, must-read and must-keep ageless guide which will be essentially useful to young adults. married people and growing teenagers(18 years of age, at least).Therefore,if you are 18 and above, this book is for you!
Click on this link to get a copy of this classic
OR copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42780
Monday, May 23, 2011
11 mAJOR dECEPTIONS yOU mUST gUARD yOURSELF aGAINST...
n our today's world, there are certain statements we hear either from the mass media, our peers or other sources which have undoubtedly formed part and parcel of our mindset. As a matter of fact, information we listen to have over the years unequivocally eaten deep form the root of our growing years of childhood and youth to the stable period of adulthood. Consequently, these statements are saliently expressed and understood words of deception which have affected our dealings with people. Therefore, the need to ‘guard' ourselves form deceptions is at this point necessary. ‘What are the deceptions?' A question you may want to ask.
Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.
At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve' the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;
Deception 1: It is no big deal losing your virginity
Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness' of sex action by engaging different partners into it.
Deception3: The bad girls ‘get' or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)
Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting
Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.
Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married
Deception 7: Divorce is normal
Deception 8: Love is blind
Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.
Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.
Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.
In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
About the book
n our world today, infidelity, acquisition of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies,divorce, demise or break ups, separation or estranged situations, insecurity and doubt and many others have unequivocally plagued relationships and marriages existing amongst individuals_celebrities inclusive.The prominence of these ills is due to the psychological acceptance of certain blindfolds known as deceptions.
The classic, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against… sheds light on the negative effects of eleven major deceptions as they affect the unions of individuals with their spouses,in relationships and marriages, using a "let us face it" approach by sighting true life stories and situations.Also,it gives lasting solutions to those seeking for the recuperation of their relationships and marriages, though dependent on choice.
It is aimed at specifically ensuring that healthy, blissful and enduring relationships and marriages are maintained, amidst the apparent cancerous spread of these ills.
Moreover,to growing youths, especially teenage men and women, who are currently not involved in serious relationships or married but aspire to be in a union with their spouses in future, this ageless masterpiece educates them on the inevitable truths associated with successful and healthy relationships leading to marriage by "preaching" to them their relevance:the right start to kick against the eminence of thriving blindfolds or deceptions.
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Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.
At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve' the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;
Deception 1: It is no big deal losing your virginity
Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness' of sex action by engaging different partners into it.
Deception3: The bad girls ‘get' or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)
Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting
Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.
Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married
Deception 7: Divorce is normal
Deception 8: Love is blind
Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.
Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.
Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.
In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
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About the book
n our world today, infidelity, acquisition of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies,divorce, demise or break ups, separation or estranged situations, insecurity and doubt and many others have unequivocally plagued relationships and marriages existing amongst individuals_celebrities inclusive.The prominence of these ills is due to the psychological acceptance of certain blindfolds known as deceptions.
The classic, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against… sheds light on the negative effects of eleven major deceptions as they affect the unions of individuals with their spouses,in relationships and marriages, using a "let us face it" approach by sighting true life stories and situations.Also,it gives lasting solutions to those seeking for the recuperation of their relationships and marriages, though dependent on choice.
It is aimed at specifically ensuring that healthy, blissful and enduring relationships and marriages are maintained, amidst the apparent cancerous spread of these ills.
Moreover,to growing youths, especially teenage men and women, who are currently not involved in serious relationships or married but aspire to be in a union with their spouses in future, this ageless masterpiece educates them on the inevitable truths associated with successful and healthy relationships leading to marriage by "preaching" to them their relevance:the right start to kick against the eminence of thriving blindfolds or deceptions.
Follow this link to get a copy of this masterpiece
OR copy and paste on your browser
http://www.youpublish.com/files/42779
WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR MAN
To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what they see.
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil' them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get' their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit' to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
About the book
Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?
The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality
It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
To get a copy of this work-piece, follow the link
OR copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42873
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil' them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get' their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit' to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
About the book
Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?
The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality
It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
To get a copy of this work-piece, follow the link
OR copy and paste on your browser
www.youpublish.com/files/42873
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