Wednesday, July 6, 2011

The States Of The Mind

There are different states that make a country. In other words, a country comprises of several states. Similarly, there are various states that constitute the mind. The nature of the mind is dependent on its states it recognizes.

'The quality of our thoughts affects the quality of our action'. Without a doubt, this is very factual. We become what we think. Of course, the most outstanding quality of the mind is Meditating Intensively, Never Declining. By implication, the quality of our thoughts is manifested in this mind quality and translated as actions. Also important, the quality of thoughts is made possible courtesy of the states of the mind.

As case study, we are considering the United States of America. The US has 52 states (Washington DC inclusive), mainly the northern and southern protectorates. In the same vein, there are different 'states' that make the country called the mind. Just as many states are created in many countries, many states are also created in the mind. Travels from one state of a country to another state of the same country are made possible through the means of convenient system of transportation to surmount constraints or difficult-by-nature boundaries. This is akin to the transition of one state of the mind to the other through the boundary known as decision.

Analogous to the previously asserted northern and southern protectorates of the US, we have mainly the 'upper' (positive, greater) and 'lower' (negative, lesser) dimensions of the mind. In the 'upper' and 'lower' dimensions, there are several states but for convenience, we are considering (each) nine states. Nonetheless, more states can be 'created', added. For the 'upper' dimension, we have: faith, success, joy, abundance, health, love, security, truth and wisdom. Also, we have for the 'lower' dimension fear, failure, pain, poverty, disease, hatred, lies, stealing and folly.

Transition from one state of the mind to the other is dependent on the quality of decision made which is a function of the most outstanding quality of the mind. For instance, if an individual wants 'travel' from the state of folly to wisdom, then such a transition would have to be made lucid via a made-decision that greatly depends on the rumination over, thought of and illumination on (identities, associated with Meditating Intensively) the state, folly, the individual's residence in terms of benefits, limits and practical potencies. By evaluation, there is a movement (decision) that surmounts challenges or oppositions in reaching the state of wisdom. Eventually, the state of wisdom will voice herself in action! Undoubtedly, this is made possible by the complementing Never Declining quality of the mind.

Chimezie Benedict


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The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind

It is amazing how a typical personal computer works: when a particular data or piece of information is inputted, the processor translates the inputted data into a machine readable language and finally delivers it as output through the Visual Display Unit (VDU) or monitor. Similarly, the human mind functions such that when it receives statements (informative creativity), it 'processes' (meditates on) them and 'delivers' them as 'outputs' (services to humanity)
Our modern bridges allow easy accessibility by motorists to cross through what can apparently be seen as 'the inaccessible routes'. In the same vein, the human mind is bridge between existence and its functionality. In other words, it bridges the gap between things man see and their significance. The question 'what is the most outstanding quality of the human mind that makes it function similar to a personal computer system and bridge between existence and its functionality?' comes to focus. The most outstanding quality of the mind is in its spell-outs, that is,




D-Declining. Simply, without you, nothing happens! Certain Thoughts Of The Mind depicts an instance demonstrating the most outstanding quality of the mind.

Certain Thoughts Of The Mind

1) Determination without conception is like reaching a destination without intention

2) In youth, we learn but in age, we learn better things we ought to understand in our youth. What an irony!

3) Concrete opportunities, most times, come as disguises. It takes wisdom applying individuals to comprehend them.

4) The school especially at tertiary level should be seen as a platform or threshold where we can decide what is best for us.

5) If LOVE simply means Letting the Offered Value Exist, what value are you really offering to others around you and yourself?

6) You can eat your cake and still have it but you won't have it the same way you ate it.

7) Perfection is attained when the action of being perfect or making things perfect is demonstrated.

8) Education is the viable means of defining the quality of one's person, given the right psycho-environmental conditions, actualized by the level of submission the individual yields to the process, learning_an aftermath of it.

9) The only physically sacred, most priced and cherished possession of a woman is her virginity. Without this, she is treated like other women, irrespective of status. Consequences? Insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity and continued fornication and adultery. The way out? A thorough and genuine spiritual overhaul.

Chimezie Ihekuna

A Trip To The World Of Mr.Death

Do you know the meaning of the acronym MR.NIGER.D? The alphabets respectively stand for Movement, Respiration, Nutrition, Irritability, Growth, Excretion, Reproduction and Death. They characterize living things. However, the attention is the highest (social) animal, man.

Over the years, science, through immense technological breakthrough, has unequivocally depicted the mentioned characteristics as being typical of humans penultimate death. Why? The all-encompassing source of explanations of science is yet to demystify the mystery of death.

We will however take a concise trip to the world known as death. In other words, a ‘snapshot' would be taken to give a picture of what death connotes. Death may be ‘snapped at' from two-dimensional perspectives namely the physical (natural) and meta-natural (meta-physical, spiritual) perspectives or viewpoints. They are conviction-dependent.

The natural viewpoint, also known as the physical perspective, refers` to the factors which are associated or causes the ‘cut-off' of man's existence. The factors can be explained by two salient concepts namely At-the instant and rate-determined death. At-the-instant death refers to death that occurs at a physical instant. A typical example is the killing of people using sophisticated weapons such as modern guns. By analysis, the term ‘death' can be seen as the Denial (of) Entities A Thorough Habitation.

On the other hand, rate-determined death simply refers to a time-influenced state which gradually wipes off man's existence. A typical instance is the pandemic effect of the death-threatening HIV on humanity. Therefore, it can be analyzed as Denying Entities A True Habitation.

The meta-physical (meta-natural or spiritual) viewpoint is arguably an extension of the limitation-faced physical viewpoint. Though its efficacy of this dimension is dependent on the conviction or belief of the individual, it is a threshold were different meta-physical or spiritual inclinations can vividly build their doctrinal potency on. In this case, the term ‘death' can be seen as the Divine Entrance (Exit) from All Thoughts (to the) Higher (from the thought-dominated physical world to the world of timeless freedom of thoughts).

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Who Are Your Friends?

'Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.' Undoubtedly, this adage is true and used as criterion to assert man's personality. As a matter of fact, the difference between an individual now and in future is ascertained by the company he or she keeps. What kind of company do you keep?

In our today's world, people make friends for different reasons and anticipate the best from this venture. Some may seek for happiness while others may seek for encouragement, information or intimacy, their friendship motive. Perhaps, people make friends for encouragement, ignoring support, information, ignoring reliability, intimacy, ignoring dedication. The lists are endless! It can be inferred that most peoples of the world are not really experiencing the completeness of friendship simply because they prioritize their 'what they want from the venture' at the expense of others. What is then completeness of friendship? The question can be rephrased as: what is true friendship?

Consider a complete building. A complete building typically comprises of an obviously not-seen foundation, concrete walls, roof tops, beams, pillars, louvers and other essential facilities. Imagine a building without louvers, pillars, roof tops or beams. What do you think will likely occur? The answer to the asked question is analogous to what happens when certain qualities of true friendship are absent. Again, what is true friendship?

Note that when making friends, ensure that the qualities of friendship are salient or exert your 'good' qualities to check or balance any discrepancies observed. True friendship is a foundation which is built on by reliability, intimacy, encouragement, 'noticeability', devotion/dedication, support, happiness and information. The foundation is made profound through the appreciation of stated qualities. Also, it is a vital tool necessary for improved network strategy and developmental plans in organizations.

Chimezie Ihekuna

Monday, July 4, 2011

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Freedom Does Not Exist!
by ben4realla in Politics, March 30, 2011

This may sound unusual to some readers but unfortunately, this is the truth…there is no freedom in the world. Why?

Literally, the word freedom means a state of being Free, loosened, boundless or unbound. In our world, certain interests such as socio-political, cultural and political recognition are seen as statements of freedom in their affairs.On second thought, are they in all ramifications free? If they are, why are eminent restrictions, dominance and other domineering mechanisms observed?

Many nations of the world that claim to be Free are not in reality what they are.They are subjugated economically, politically culturally and socially by subduing external forces.Their sovereignty is made conspicuous through the consent given by their superiors-the external forces. In a way, this accounts for the reasons certain unexplained restrictions and dominance parade themselves as watch dogs in the day-to-day existence of these nations.

Politically, many third world countries are intensely pressured by the ever-ruling presence of their superiors thereby ascertaining their polity and call the shots in the political arena of developing nations.Over the years, political history of third world nations have been attributed to the orchestrations of external forces-their superiors.Interestingly, they are at the fore-front of every critical political situation and will determine in future what should be or not in these countries.This is the reason many policies in the third world nations are held spell-bound

Socially, certain values are being introduced into the world that are unequivocally eaten deep into already-existing values.This has encouraged a form of mental slavery;the mindset that the values practised are subject to what are said to be accepted.Hence, people, regardless of position, cultural background and race, have fallen into this snare of slavery.

What does the Bible say? It states to the New Creation Christian; you were bought with a price. By implication, it is either you are a bond-slave to be used by GOD to fulfill your mandate on earth or become a slave to the world.Even if you see yourself as an Atheist, then you become enslaved in the prison called your mind and in shackles called your reasoning.

Always remember this;the world is a big or mighty prison;you can run but you can’t hide.Nothing is free, even in Freetown!

The Royal Wedding Between Prince William and Kate Middleton; If They Were Only Virgins…

The article explains the true sacredness of any Royal marriage is deeply rooted on the chastity of both couples.Using Prince Williams and Kate Middleton as case study, it makes vivid the conditionality of their being chaste form their growing years to the day of their wedding as yardstick to experience a successful matrimony and avoid a replica of what took place in the lives the Late Princess Diana and Prince Charles.

April 29, 2011 will for years to come linger in the hearts and minds of many as the prestigious and world-celebrated wedding between Kate Middleton and Prince William took center stage at the Royal Courts. The greatest wedding, since the matrimony between Prince Charles, Williams’ father and the Late Princess of Wales, Princess Diana in 1981, was marked and celebrated worldwide.

However, marriage is best enjoyed and generally appreciated if the bed is undefiled. The question that should be asked is ‘how many beds have this couple defiled before meeting each other?’ ‘Why the question’, you may ask.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana had an unresolved issue in their marriage-infidelity. As a result of Prince Charles’ attitude of infidelity, Princess Diana took what was said to be a drastic decision, despite several warnings, as a reply to her husband escapades, a move to do the absurd-having an illicit affair with an ‘outsider; an established Egyptian multi-millionaire. Like the natural principle, ‘you reap what you sow’, Princess Diana became a member of secluded Mother Earth, courtesy of the 1996 ghastly motor accident which took her life. Prince Charles’ heir to the thrown feat seems to hang on the balance as his son is considered and given the attention as heir apparent. If Prince Charles and Princess Diana had avoided sexual immorality from the get-go (during their growing years) or seen as celibates, don’t you really think Princess Diana would be dead and Prince Charles will certainly be the heir apparent to succeed Queens Elizabeth (II)?

As an observer, don’t you see this event repeating itself in the latter years of Prince Williams and Duchess Kate Middleton? Has Prince William stopped his unquenched thirst for women? Will he portray his father infidel attitude-engaging in extra-marital affairs? If this ugly event repeat itself, will Kate Middleton be able to uphold fidelity or have her pound of flesh just as Princess Diana did?

Imagine a situation where Kate Middleton and Prince William were celibates or virgins till their wedding day, what do you think about royalty of their matrimony? The sacredness of their matrimony consecration will assert to the world the uniqueness of their royal wedding; an affirmation of continued and mutual faithfulness to each other in years to come, no matter what ensues. Just as the US state of Virginia named after Virgin Queen Elizabeth (I), perhaps, a place will be named Virkatelia, in the name of Virgin Queen Kate Middleton in years to come.

Death of Osama Bin Laden; The Beginning of The Very End or The End of The Very Beginning?

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Death of Osama Bin Laden; The Beginning of The Very End or The End of The Very Beginning?
by ben4realla in Issues, May 13, 2011

This a special dedication to the Us government on how terrorism can be continually tackled to attain world peace.It is a wort reading master piece.

Perhaps, the most laudable achievements of the Obama-led US government is the eventual killing of the world’s recognized terrorist, the Saudi-born Osama Bin Laden-the ‘suspected’ mastermind behind the red-letter day, September 11, 2001 attack. Indeed, it is a tremendous feat attained after a ten-year to capture this ‘terror’

Unequivocally, President Barrack Hussein Obama has taken a giant stride to accomplish what was hitherto seen as a wild goose chase and white elephant project –the complete silencing of Osama Bin Laden and his network, the Al-Qaeda force. However, does the death of Osama Bin Laden signal the beginning of the end or the end of terrorism?

Let us don’s forget that as many are celebrating his demise, there are also people who are expressing grief, excruciations and other obnoxious reactions over the abrupt departure to the great beyond of their brother, father and leader. What a picture of contradiction! What should evenly create a sigh of relief to world is ironically expressed in two entirely contradicting pictures!

Terrorism is a thought-manufactured phenomenon, a comprehensively demonstrated act of strategizing, using armed impetus, to execute, with the aim of dehumanizing mankind.

In a way, Osama Bin Laden, prior to his death, must have brain-washed the minds of his followers into believing the act of terrorism mis a fulfilling pay-back of the wrongs on them by the western world. Hence, the reason for the multifarious terrorist attacks in different (‘western’) countries of the world. Like a viral and cancerous spread, the mentality is propagated in the lives of growing children and young adults by his followers and co-horts. Regrettably, this philosophy had attracted many loyalists and supporters, and in the making, constituted a population of terrorism-at-home individuals who will stop at nothing to have their pound of flesh over ‘certain wrongs’ the westerners have inflicted on them; a reflection of what is being imparted in them.

What should be of paramount concern to the US government is the dynamics of immense influence of the act of terrorism in the lives of innocent children, growing youths and young adults. In other words, orchestrating concrete ideas to counter and curb the on-going menace-causing and obnoxious doctrines of terrorism to ensure the much clamoured ‘world peace’ should be the concern of the Obama-led US government.

Power Shift of Over-stayed Rulership in Africa; Lessons Learnt

This article succinctly discusses the adverse effects over-stayed longevity of service most African leaders have unequivocally constituted, militating against sustainable developments and engendering imbalances from the social, cultural, political and economic perspectives. Without an iota of doubt, it is a worth considering classic which will be useful to many African leaders and politicians.

Over the years, the issue of long-term rulership by prominent political leaders in Africa has been a household name in the psyche of every Tom, Dick and Harry whose domicile is under the convince of the continent, Africa. Obviously, this is an undoubted fact.

For instance, former Togolese President, Enyadema, Gabonese Omar Bongo, the then Zaire’s Mobutu, Uganda’s Idi-Ami, Zimbabwe’s Robert Mugabe, Libya’s Gaddafi, Ivorian Laurent Gbagbo, Egypt’s Hosni Mubarak and many others are unequivocally household names whose over-stayed years of continued leadership leaves much to be desired. Why?

It is undeniably vivid that the psychology many Africans, especially those in the political arena is spelt out as intentional gimmicks disguised as asserted manifestos to deceive or ’buy’ the conscience of their subjects into believing the picture they paint of themselves. However, attaining success via ingenuinely playing schemes or manipulating the masses to canvass for support towards being elected into office is tantamount to inflicting more corruption into the polity of nations they politicize. Some other leaders get their way into office through strategized coup plots or overthrow of a prior government. For instance, Ugandan’s Idi-Ami and Libya’s Gaddafi became leaders by orchestrating Military coup plots.

Misappropriation of funds, looting, poverty, increased unemployment rate, escalated inflation rates, bribe, gruesome massacre, homicide, genocide, inadequate provision of basic amenities and created social, economic and political set backs become clear eventualities of their psyche, demonstrated as unfair approach mechanisms to handling pertinent issues of national interest. Their over-stayed longevity of political leadership has engendered the cancerous spread of socio-ethnic, political economic and religious cankerworms; continually denying many African constituents a space of advancement.

Many African countries are said to be under-developed because littered adversities-negating and detrimental thoughts and actions of different discrepancies on the streets of various political locations of Africa results from the over-stayed presence of power-thirsty and desperate-to-clinch power individuals.

Alas, this category of African leaders have failed to come to terms that their subjects are not as oblivious as thought in the light of complete exercise of their rights. Their citizens, on raising eyebrows on certain political irregularities their leaders are involved in, revolt; causing pandemonium in their nations or raise protests; obstructing and exposing the can of worms of hidden unfairness their leaders exhibit. Denying competent, younger, dynamic, vibrant and well-meaning individuals who are interested in moving their countries forward give the masses sufficient impetus to cause obstruction to government and engender conflicts in their nations.

Many African leaders, by virtue of action, have misconstrued the task associated with leadership. In practical terms, contrary to the notion realistically upheld by them, political leadership is an organized servant-leader identity which recognizes the continued servant hood or service toward the betterment and development of nationhood via using policies that are people-friendly, create impact, beneficial to all and sundry, irrespective of status and not for self-aggrandizement.

Therefore, it is suggested that African leaders, after spending stipulated terms in office, peacefully vacate the position of occupancy, handover to those who are deserving of this height, with dignity (basking in the euphoria of nationhood service well attained and continuity-enabled) rather than facing disgrace-resulting stepping down or impeachment moves; a statement of heightened political immaturity with ruins of irreconcilable differences.

Home » Music Making » Fame or Faithfulness; Which Should be Prioritized? Fame or Faithfulness; Which Should be Prioritized?

This write up discusses the advantages and disadvantages associated in prioritizing fame over faithfulness or faithfulness over fame. It asserts that there are two unequal parallels in that a balance cannot be struck.Hence, the onus is on the individual to state the one that should be given priority at the expense of the other.

Fame and faithfulness are virtues mankind appreciate. As a matter of fact, most peoples of the world would desire they have both virtues and more importantly, strike an even balance between them. However, this feat is practically impossible as the terms ‘fame’ and ‘faithfulness’ are described as ‘two unequal parallels’. The big question is ‘should faithfulness be prioritized over fame or should fame be prioritized over faithfulness?’

Of course, fame exposes people to the world. Many celebrities become influential world figures, courtesy of fame. No doubt, fame brings to the spotlight an array of ‘diligent’ individuals who wish to be famous and favours such as financial favours, contract-based offers form leading firms from every nook and canny of the world, admiration by people, all kinds of glamour, built reputation, audience, followership and other recognized attachments are drawn to them. On the other hand, faithfulness apparently keeps people away from the corridors of worldwide recognition. Moreover, it is a virtue that seem to keep people in the dark and make them become spectators ton those who make the news.

Nonetheless, being in the spotlight blindfolds people from certain facts. Many individuals who became famous would initially have the rationale of having more time to themselves, exercise freedom and privacy only to realize the reverse becomes the case. No wonder a cynic once remarked; ‘a celebrity is a displayed or showcased public property whose longevity of service is dependent on the level of concurrence and appreciation who are interested. Many celebrities have no privacy at all; most times, they are always moving from place to place without necessarily creating time to cool off. Many of them fall victims of drug addiction, alcoholism, drug peddling and trafficking and other forms of moral decadence, no thanks to the absence of faithfulness. In fact, many celebrity marriages hit the rocks because of the very absence of faithfulness. On the other hand, people, whose falls under the watchful eyes of faithfulness have a completely different story to tell. This security precludes them form the servitude of drug and alcohol addiction, drug trafficking and sustains their marriages. More importantly, faithful people are interestingly the bedrock of the famous; they contrite immensely, though behind the scene of the news making or at the background, towards the steady rise to fame of those who are poised to accomplish this feat. John Wesley, founder of the great Methodist Church Movement, was very famous during his day courtesy of the steady moral upbringing and unwavering support of his mother.

Making a Life Versus Making a living

This article is dedicated to those who are career-seeking and ambitious.It is a worth reading and considered masterpiece.

The subject matter concerns those who are career-seeking and ambitious. It is a topic that looks into the intricacies of making a living as against making a life in succinctly; in terms of their differences, advantages and consequences.

Making a life involves the use of one’s potentials as foundation of a life-long success and legacy, sacrificially letting go other cut-corner activities, believing with the right conviction (indefatigably with the strength of insurmountable determination) the realities of what is or are built on. In all, making a life entails patience, persistence, consistency, patience, diligence and determination and other sacrifices as yardsticks to ensuring a life-long edification of one’s ambition. For instance, it took Henry Ford determination, a great deal of courage and other sacrifices to ensure a for-all-ages-stay of Ford Motors.

Making a living is synonymous with earning a living. It is basically a day-to-day sustenance of income and generation of money. Working in banks, business enterprises and other establishment for salary earning, stipends, wages and other incentives are examples of making a living. Interestingly, earning a living is short-lived as it involves day-to-day sustenance.

Making a living and Making a life are choice-dependent. Do you want to make a living or make a life? It’s up to you to decide!

The Code-13 Principle

Presently known as ‘Postulation of the sex arithmetic; a novel piece’, it is a novel classic that worth immense consideration in the 21st century. It is the advent of a world-changing phenomenon which will become a household name and a forte for sexuality. Whence accepted, this name or subject matter will not only be a literary masterpiece but an every-day reality.

The code-13 Principle is a term or recognition which takes to account the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender, had engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. This statement is made possible, courtesy of its mechanism known as the computable equation.

The computable equation takes to account the number of times individuals had engaged in sexual intercourse before getting married to their eventual spouses; from the first -sex experience to the point where concerned individuals call it quits with singlehood and embrace marriage. Taking to cognizance the first-sex experience number as constant (value of 1), validity of the computable equation depends on the individual’s sincerity to keep records of his or her sex activities and partly dependent on number of sexual relations engaged, it uses as case study a particular individual (A, say,) to state its uniqueness.

The equation has 13 mathematical interpretations which give the two major sex lives of individuals-simple and complex sex lives. There are also varying degrees of simplicity and complexity in the equation’s trends. There are signs and expressions used to construe the uniqueness of the all-time algebraic recognition. Hence, the name ‘The Code-13 Principle’. Here, based on logic and impression (writer’s judgment), certain labels are associated with those whose sex lives fall on the thirteen interpretations. There is an analysis and derivation or proof that asserts the verity of the equation under the watchful eyes of time and space.

The novel piece can be applied to three major social sciences; psychology, sexology and sociology. By extrapolation, it will go a long way in face-lifting criminology. With necessary modifications or attachments, individidual criminal tendencies by means of sexual behavior can be ascertained using the Code-13 principle

The Idea-Knowledge Relationship; The Vector approach

This is aimed at giving an analogous relationship exist between ideas and knowledge using the application of vector analysis.This is worth reading and considering…

T hey say ‘ideas rule the world’. In a way, ideas are forces that dominate all facets of world accomplishments. As a matter of fact, the physical world, being a dynamic three-dimensional face, is what it is because of the actions of ideas. In the first place, what are ideas?

In a creative sense, ideas are Informative (In-depth) Derivations Envisaged (by) Aspirations (via) Statements or

I-Informative (In-depth)


E-Envisaged (by)

A-Aspirations (via)


Ideas are information-based interests which are really in-depth in origin and intended to be tried or put to practice theoretically or practically in order to effect a change.

We will approach the idea-knowledge relationship from an analogous scientific angle-the vector approach. Here, we represent ideas as forces. It is a known fact that the earth is (physically) three dimensional. Therefore, we will theoretically resolve these ‘forces’ in three dimensional axes, analogous to the resolution of vector forces in three dimensions (in a typical vector analysis).Note that the reason ideas represent forces is that forces are directional (vectors; having magnitude and direction) and ideas are akin forces which exert themselves on concerned ‘objects’ towards a direction of change.

When ideas are resolved into the three-dimensional earth plane, then they produce a resultant known as knowledge. In other words, when they are resolved in a 3-D pattern they become


N-Noted (and)





D-Development (and)



It can be asserted that the resolution of ideas locates Empowerment, Development and General Ethics which are form the only core parts of knowledge in consonance with the discerned three-dimensional plane of the earth. In summary, the resolution of ideas results in identification of knowledge-power-an outcome of action of forces of ideas through a distance of action in relation to time.

Friday, June 10, 2011

The 'beyond physics' analogy of Newton's laws of motion

We will begin the laws of motion as stated by Newton
1) A body will continue be at rest or in uniform motion on a straight line except acted upon by an external force .This is the law of inertia
2) The force applied is directly proportional to the rate of momentum change. Mathematically, FαM (V-U)/T, where F is the applied force, M is the mass of the body, V is the final velocity, U is the inertial velocity and T is the time taken.
3) Actions are equal and opposite. This exemplifies the laws of equilibrium.
In an analogous fashion, the laws of inspiration are stated as follows;
1) Mankind will continue to exhibit stagnancy, be static or reluctance to change except there is a force of inspiration. This is the law of Inertia of man
2) The force of inspiration drives man from the limiting pinnacle of the three-dimensional axis of the world to the destinations of realms, proportional to the product quantity and quality of information man has, level of awareness and consciousness and a theoretical difference between the peak of receptiveness of information or knowledge harnessed in the various realms and the receptiveness threshold in relation to eternity. In mathematical format, FiαMi (Vi-Ui)/E∞. Therefore, Fi=kMi(Vi-Ui)/ E∞ where Fi is the force of inspiration, Mi=the quality and quantity of information man has, level of awareness and consciousness level in him, Vi=peak of receptiveness( the points at the realms where man can ‘pick’ the zenith of information based on positioning or understanding), Ui=Receptiveness Threshold( the normal point on the space-time axis at which man readily receive information), E∞ =Eternity(infinite time), k=universal constant=change=1(the probability of the dynamism of these parameters is 1; a certainty).Hence, Fi=Mi(Vi-Ui)/ E∞,
FiαMi (Vi-Ui)/E∞ becomes
Fi=kMi (Vi-Ui)/ E∞
Fi=Mi (Vi-Ui)/ E∞
In practical terms, this could be translated as the various achievements (socio-economic, scientific and political breakthroughs attained by man in relation to the ages of his existence- from the pre-historical to contemporary times)
3) For every transcending act of inspiration, there is an equal but opposite re-act that is transcending. For instance, when we incline our minds to a chair of mediation, there are forces released to various ‘beyond the physical realms’ and equal and returning forces are reciprocated bringing about what their realizations in eternity. However, owing a limited stipulation, earthly time, it takes a period for the manifestation of these forces to become visible to the human eye.In a way, this is the law of balance of worlds; an analogy of the laws of equilibrium.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

The Bengi(o)sophy Initiative... a phase of true modernization

The BEngi (o) sophy Initiative is an author-preneural, education-based and a futuristic state-of-the-art enterprise that brings to the spotlight the advent of an eventual come-to-stay recognition,Engi(o)sophy_a phase of true modernization .

At this point, succinct assertions to establish an easy-to-understand recognition of the all-in-one Engi (o) sophy are undoubtedly essential.

Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.

Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.

Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.
As earlier mentioned, the BEngi (o) sophy Initiative, under the watchful eyes of its vibrant and dynamic pioneer, Mr. Ben, is a three-faced enterprise-author-preneural, education-based and futuristic state-of-the-art to specially enlighten people, irrespective of background, race, belief and status on its importance.

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Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? (introduction and chapter sample)


The classic, Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful To? Is an interest that focuses on what make the issues of sex responsible for demise in relationships, estranged and divorced marital status by investigating the apparently considered trivial yardsticks and proffers rightly faithfulness approach to individuals who are in various relationships or married.

It is a must-read, must-have and must-keep work piece that has points, analogous to chapters, the trivialized yardsticks. The points are in the form of questions, striking phrases, and profound expressions. The points include the following:

Point1: How many times have you engaged in sex before marriage?

Point2: How many relationships have you been in, what kind of relationships were they and what led to the `break-ups'?

Point 3: In The relationship you are in presently, do you still have any crush on any you have dated? Are you secretly involved in any illicit affair with any of them, despite your current relationship?

Point 4: If you are married or in a relationship, would you compromise the faithfulness in the institution you are in, if given a tempting but favourable situation such that no one would know what really happened until the world ends?

Point 5: Men, would you be faithful to your wives or wives-to-be, despite ageing physical appearance and chose to ignore `sizzling' attractive young women?

Point6: The only physically sacred possession of a woman is her virginity…

Point 7: Women, would you still uphold faithfulness to your husbands or husbands to-be, despite infidelity on their part or their not being able to perform?

Point 8: The natural law of sowing and reaping is real.

Point 9: The best time to appreciating sexual faithfulness is marriage…

The points mentioned are seemingly seen as trivial yardsticks. The (sincere) answers and follow-up of point 9 will respectively determine whether or not an individual is faithful and level of one's faithfulness.

If you really want to swim through the water of a successful relationship and marriage completely, then, you must be ready to get thoroughly soaked in the complete questioning and sincerity-based answers to questions that appeal to you.

Point One
At this juncture, it is important to assert this: in a relationship or marriage, there are two virtues that bind individuals together; love and sex. The former is a product of heartfelt affection reflected as the outward value placed on by both parties while the latter is genuinely an expression (in form of direct physical contact) of the value placed by both parties.

Point 1 is a questionnaire that inquires into the sexual fidelity of an individual. It could be you! However, we take individual A as case study. Individual A could be a male or female. The question is asked: `individual A, How many times did you engage in sex before this time'; marriage? You will be amazed at the likely responses you would get. Individual A may not answer, believing you want to infringe on his or her privacy. Individual A would likely give you a questionable numeric figure, taking your question with levity. Interestingly, Individual A may respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you!

If sex is an engaged activity, should it been seen as an off-the-record event, documented, kept as secret for a while (but think of this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or a thing to be remembered when you are in your grave!?

If you want it to be kept as secret for a while, t hen think of the question asked. The person you had it with could decide to unveil to his or her world what really happened. In time, this it may bring implications. Remember, the wall has ears.

If it should be remembered when you are in your grave, what an exclamation it is. No one to share this `burden' with? Frankly, you are in a world of your own.

If it is worth documenting (and remembering), then you should be congratulated! You are about exercising empirical knowledge on individuals (the wise ones; enabling them learn what can vaguely be thought or taught.

A number of times individual A had engaged in sex before the `time' or marriage is by number of fathomable, provided there is an up-to-date record or documentation. Awkward, isn't it? Take a cue from this:

A serious-minded businessman keeps records of his daily transactions or business activities. No matter his schedule and volume of transaction, he knows the essence of keeping records and documenting them for future references. Otherwise, he is considered an irresponsible individual who does not know the worth of what he is doing and is in the business just to dilly-ally his time. Similarly, keeping records of your sex activities will none or the other define your sex disposition (one of the determinants of your sexual fidelity), if not now but in future.

Unfortunately, many individuals are guilty of this. It can be inferred form the first paragraph that individuals are so `bonded' to multiple sex partners that they can rarely remember the exact number of people they had `slept with' before marriage. This probably accounts for their negligence in record keeping. Hence, they are arguably seen as irresponsible and unfaithful. Come to think of it, if you cannot in concrete terms assert the number of times you had engaged in sex before marriage, what makes your sex life different from that of a whore or sex maniac? The following are question-based analysis that `digs' into the number of times Individual A had had sex. In fact, they provide clues to enable the individual remember (and subsequently keep records of his or her activity) this engagement.


When did you loose your virginity?

How was the feeling?

Did you continue to have this `feel'?

Have you engaged in a one-night stand or for-the-moment sex before?

How comfortable do you feel letting people know about your escapades? Does anyone know about your different sex affairs?

For how long can you stay without having sex? If the timing is exceeded, can you afford to `do it' with anyone you come across?

If you see the person responsible for your virginity loss, how do you sincerely see the individual?

The sincerity-driven answers given by you will determine, in a way, whether or not you are worth sexually being faithful to. It can be sated that the number of times individual A had engaged in sex before marriage is partly dependent on relationships engaged.

One thing is certain: the answer to the `question' is responsible for the obvious emergency of infidelity amongst individuals in various relationships.

My Kind Of Man, My Kind Of Woman (Introduction and chapter sample)

The classic is a rare-to-find two-titled work piece that extensively sheds light on criteria many men and women use to ascertain their spouses' fitness for relationships and marriages and vividly identifies their flaws. A second-to-none gem, it goes a long way in affirming the should-be kind of man and/or woman, though based on choice.

My Kind Of Man and My Kind of Woman are a must-read and must-have materials that clearly recognize reasons many marriages fail and relationships decline. Yet, it asserts to interested and women their right kind of spouses.

In this book, readers will get to appreciate the essence of having the right partners for a life-long union or worth-remembering relationship leading marriage. It is a worth considering masterpiece. Irrespective of race, status or culture, it is a sure-bet for successful relationships.

The come-to-stay interest elucidates seven major criteria (each) that constitute reasons many relationships and marriages fail to work out. They are arranged in the following formats:

My Kind Of Woman


Chapter 1: Wealth/Money

Chapter 2: Responsibility/Maturity

Chapter 3: Background

Chapter 4: Appearance and Intellect

Chapter 6: Sexuality

Chapter 7: Defense

Also, for My Kind Of Woman,


Chapter 1: Appearance

Chapter 2: Sexuality

Chapter3: Wealth/Money/Financial independence

Chapter 4: Intellect

Chapter 5: Background

Chapter 6: Behavioral disposition

Chapter 7:Level of handling home affairs (matters)

Readers will certainly come to the realization that though they are worth being termed `criteria', turn-outs of these qualities in many relationships and marriages have not yielded anticipates success stories. Nonetheless, it gives a clear-cut suggestion of who their right spouses should be (with irrefutable reasons)

The concluding part of this timeless relationship and marriage guide has a striking statement, integrating the should-be kind of man and woman.

Every chapter in each title explains the interesting benefits of considering the qualities as criteria for relationships and marriages, explores their weaknesses and asserts the `right things'. What are those `right things'?

Particularly helpful to aspiring (young) Christian brothers and sisters, this classic will undoubtedly help them rightly position them to locate their kind of spouses. Also, those who are seeking for good relationships and marriages will find this work piece interesting and practicable. Moreover, would-be married couples will get to appreciate the essence of this profound work.

My Kind Of Man
Chapter one
When a relationship or marriage is existent without physical wealth, such a union may suffer setbacks. A number of ladies are of the view that marriages seldom hit the rocks due to the absence of wealth. To this end, they believe their man whom they intend getting married to or involving themselves in relationships with must possess wealth. Would you blame them?

Relationships and marriages hit the rocks owing to the absence of money. To some ladies, `money strengthens many relationships and marriages and adds spice to them'. Without money, most relationships and recognized marriages almost amount to nothing!

A woman needs good clothes, accessories and other fashion outfits to look good. To attain these feats, she needs money. Nonetheless, what is most desired is absent. She claims to have a confidant; someone who she's in a deep relationship with. Yet, he hardly can eke a living. To you, what do you think would likely be the aftermath of such union?

The Holy bible, the wisest book in the world tells us that money answers all things. If you doubt this, then read this story:

Vince, a fresh graduate from one of the world's prestigious citadel of higher learning, recently got married to his childhood heartthrob, Lucia. In fact, their wedding ceremony was a talk-of-the-town event as the society's `who is who' came form all nooks and crannies of the country and Diaspora to grace the memorable event. Indeed, as an attendee, it was a red-lettered day to me.

Three years on, their marriage started experiencing `down-turns' as Vince was not leaving up to his responsibility as head of the family. Although his ever-understanding wife, Lucia, a high salary earner, never made complaints of Vince's financial incompetence, it was crystal clear the home was heading the direction of dis-equilibrium; Lucia was responsible for rents, bills and other miscellaneous expenses which ought to be borne on Vince.

It got a point Lucia could not stomach burden encountered in incurring expenses for the day-to-day affairs of the home and simultaneously catering for herself, Vince and her two-month- old baby, Cameron. From a bad-to-worse situation, Vince lost the mantle of being the family head and was subject to Lucia's strange and sudden instructions, since she had become bread winner.

As time progressed, Lucia couldn't afford to unnecessary couldn't afford to foot the home's utility bills and other expenses. She found solace in the abode of a well-to-do business merchant, Bobby. In no time, Bobby stole her heart and this made Lucia, without any remorse, filled for a divorce which she eventually got.

As I write this, Vince, now gainfully employed is in custody of his two-year old Cameron. If Vince was opulent enough to shoulder his responsibilities as the man of the house, do you think Lucia would divorce him?

More often than not, a lot of women assert that the men they would give their hands in marriage to or be in serious relationship with must have the finance to meet up with their demands. In a way, this mindset, perhaps results from the aftermaths of relationships or marriages they've been in or lessons learnt from the lives of their parents when growing years. On the other hand, their male counterparts, knowing this mindset, in order not to loose their `precious pearl' to rivals, go the length of manipulating certain dispositions, all in the name of acquiring wealth or making money using cut-corner methods. They carry out the acts of manipulation, not minding the immediate after-consequences of their actions.

However, a relationship or marriage not based on (true) love but money will unequivocally experience more hard times contrary to the en vogue view of people especially women; over-prioritizing money or wealth as basis of relationship or marriage. To an extent, a number of ladies who venture into relationships or marriages with their souses on grounds of monetary availability end up getting not contended because the engine known as true love is out of the picture and hence, they are robed off happiness and fulfillment. This is one of the reasons you see a lot of women who are married to or in relationship with opulent men more depressed, confused and unfulfilled than they were prior to their current union. They are denied of affection, care, intimacy, attention access to information and other important marital values. Rather, they are subjugated to stringent rules by their spouses who know the union they find themselves is on the basis of money and see their female partners as `bargain beneficiaries'.

An ever-chaste born again Christian sister operates on a different dimensional scale. Over the years, she had prepared herself by acknowledging the bible-based principle of true love as the lasting foundation of a successful marriage and genuine or serious relationship. She unequivocally works with the consciousness that though money answers all things, wisdom is the most principal thing and in acquiring it, she gets understanding which is tantamount to wealth acquisition. Moreover, she ardently follows the biblical assertion: `the love of money is the root of all evil' by prioritizing wisdom; embracing true love instead of money.

Here, the term of `wealth' is synonymous with `money'.

My Kind Of Woman

Chapter One


By nature, men are generally moved by what they see. The masculine gender is wired by sight. Hence, the reason for the criterion, appearance. Men are attracted to their opposite sex by virtue of appearance.

Therefore, do not be surprised when you hear most of them say: `she must be beautiful', `she must have the right curves; perfect shape and in all, have all-complete physique', `she must be vey attractive' and so on. This is the first thing that draws the attention of a man to a woman and becomes a threshold or foundation for further build-ups of an eventual union.

Knowing this natural fact, a number of `wise' women have taken to modern-day fashion trends to portray who they are a shadow of-modest or provocative outlook. Obviously, their appearance becomes a field; pulling or gravitating the desired men to them to their intents.

Afterall, a good-looking woman is the dream of a typical carnal or sense-ruled man. John, 45, has this to say; `I got attracted to my girlfriend, now my wife because of her physique. It did go a long way in strengthening our relationship. In no time, we clicked! And now, we're happily married with two lovely children'.

On the contrary, good appearance has been used as bait by women to engage men whose criterion is reflected on the threshold in a union of obnoxious abyss. A lot of men are really oblivious of the fact that looks are deceiving and not all women who are good looking portray the good-looking image. Stanley, 32, who married Lucinda, 31, made an interesting comment of the outcome: `If you'd told me Lucinda will be a thorn in my flesh someday, be rest assured I'd keep you at armslenght. At prima fascie, I felt deeply in love with her because of her stunning looks. Then, after much deliberation, she responded to my proposal of marriage. We went on a date and all other things kept going well as planned. One thing led to the other and we soon got married. It was after a year we got married I realized the `were-wolf' behaviour of my wife as not only a nag but also an unrepentant parasite. Her stunning looks were blindfolding and I happen to be the unfortunate victim. Now, I'm at the point of no going back in my marriage'.

An ever-chaste born again brother works with the biblical consciousness; `man looks at the appearance but God looks at the heart'. Rather than pay strict attentions to appearance, he's simply focused at intents, a reflection of the mind's quality. Knowing the mind of God, he reciprocates the rendition 'as he is, so we are on earth' in his dealings with his spouse.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

An Overview Of Engi(o)sophy...a phase of true modernization(extract)

Humanity's mandate by God; the emblem of all viable works of nature is to exert its all-encompassing nature by unraveling the mysteries of the dynamics of all entities and their efficacies. In other words, the basis of existence of humanity is explained by its calling; applying the god character to use: inter-relating the dynamics of all works of nature to commensurate its existence.

In response to the asserted mandate, humanity, over the years, has devised time – influenced standards and methods to continually leave up to anticipation. As a matter of fact, humanity to a large extent, believes that it has exerted the "god of the universe" quality to recognize and act on the unveiled mysteries of nature. The various norms, values (ethics), endeavours, patterns, and skills are the methods and standards employed by humanity in response to its mandate.

However, humanity had over time depicted a discrepancy in its calling. Undoubtedly, it has prioritized certain efficacious entities discovered and acted on over others thereby making them seemingly less important. Certainly, the consequences are well spelt out. How?

Consider a farmland where there are different crops to be cultivated. The laissez-a-faire attitude of the farmer in systematically arranging (by spacing) his crops will create an unhealthy harvest as an unfavourable "survival of the fittest" competition arises amongst the cultivated crops thereby denying the relatively weak crops the necessary factors of growth. Consequently, some die while the living but denied ones suffer from different forms of abnormal physiological or morphological diseases. Whereas, care exercised by the farmer should have prevented the chance of "this harsh" competition from occurring.

Similarly, the standards, ethics, and other recognized methodologies developed by humanity to actualize its calling have unequivocally faced not-good challenges. These interests have prioritized the efficacies of certain human-developed discoveries and not defined others. In today's world, multifarious socio-economic, cultural and political set backs are as a result of inequality of developed strategies by humanity.

The questions "is there a way out of these?" and "if there is, which way?" arise. No doubt, there is a need to re-defining the human recognition of interests. How?

Precisely, re-defining the human recognition of interests which as we will see later, is no doubt a phase of true modernization. The come-to-stay coined term "Engi(o)sophy" surfaces to serve this purpose. To begin with, what is the meaning of Engi(o)sophy?

As asserted, Engi(o)sophy is a projected come-to-stay development aimed at re-defining the human recognition of interests which is a phase of true modernization.

Engi (o) sophy is theoretically a derived product resulting from the fusion of engineering and philosophy. It can be likened to a mulatto being that results from the fusion of the gametes of a Caucasian lady and Negroid man. :

Literally, Engi(o)sophy views engineering as a present continuous term, that is, a precisely creative process and philosophy as intricacies or principles. Therefore, Engi(o)sophy literally can be viewed as "continuum of intricacies". By continuum, we mean continued improvement or modification of. Interestingly, Engi(o)sophy cuts across all disciplines saliently unveiling the practiced but not spelt out engineering and philosophy. The literal meaning of Engi(o)sophy is considered. In other words, Engi(o)sophy is unusually defining but rightly expressing philosophy and engineering in all endeavours of human existence.

* Historically, the new concept derives its name from the words "Engi" (as in Engineering), meaning ‘creative' and (o)sophy (as in philosophy), meaning "wisdom". Therefore, Engi(o)sophy is simply "creative wisdom". It can be analyzed as:

Engineering + Philosophy = Engineering-Philosophy. However, considering the "fusion", "Engi" + (o)sophy" = "Engi(o)sophy", the surest possibility! Why the bracket signs on "o", one of the spell-outs of Engi(o)sophy and why is it the surest possibility?

* Engi(o)sophy, as applied to human endeavours, is the theoretical equivalent of practice. The word "sophy" originates from the Greek word "sophia" meaning wisdom, precisely, theoretical wisdom. Irrespective of discipline, Engi(o)sophy is the theory of its practice.

* Engi(o)sophy is a pictured come-to-stay concept which asserts unequivocally the fact that all human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) are an appreciation of creative wisdom. As a matter of fact, they derive their source from the term "creative wisdom". It is a fact that integrate all fields of human discipline to itself; having all disciplines answer the name Engi(o)sophy in its recognition because it is a translation of the (original) source of all human disciplines, creative wisdom. All disciplines are wisely created by man and are continually improved using time –influenced aids (or technologies) for the continued recognition and benefit of mankind.

.Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

About the book

Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in an entity, the world (earth). Similarly, picture an entity that has all fields of human discipline in it-a world of human endeavours-Engi (o) sophy.

Engi (o) sophy is a come-to-stay interest, translated as ‘creative wisdom’ and ‘continuum of intricacies’. It is aimed at re-defining various endeavours associated with mankind_ a phase of true modernization. Engi (o) sophy unequivocally assert the fact : all fields of human disciplines (recognized and yet to come) have a common source, creative wisdom, akin to God’s divine creative wisdom used in creating the world; an entirety of all recognized entities and the ones to come found in it. Moreover, Engi (o)sophy is the continued improvement or modification of established ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’, concepts, terms, standards and other essentials associated with the various human disciplines.

Precisely, the masterpiece titled AN Overview Of Engi (o) sophy is an umbrella to its three-recognized versions. The versions include the following:
1) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)- The general public perspective
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The academic/educational perspective
3) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The practical perspective
1) The general public perspective: This version of Engi (o) sophy is aimed at re-defining the orientation of the general public (the people), especially the commoner on certain issues such as gender matters, politics, business, self-improvement or help, relationship, friendship and so on thereby positioning humanity on a threshold of appreciating the essence of its existence.
2) The educational/academic perspective: Engi (o) sophy serves an improving aid or upgrading standard to any nation’s education sector, willing to give it a ‘welcome’ embrace.
3) The practical perspective: This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It demonstrates in practical terms to every interested Tom, Dick and Harry the dynamics of Engi(o) sophy.

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Come To Think Of It, Sex!


There are different views by people on the issue of sex.However, we will be considering sexual intercourse. To the male folk, sex is arguably seen as a means of reducing tension. It asserts the qualities of sex as the true appropriation of sex and should best appreciated at the discerned time_marriage.With somewhat funny sense of creativity, it contains didactic statements which are worth listening enabling sex performers to exercise the c-caution ideology.

The true qualities of sex are gotten from the its spell outs, S, E and X. The term SEX can be analyzed as:



X-Xperience(Experience), where ‘x' has the same pronunciation as ‘Ex'.Therefore, the term ‘sex' has three major qualities namely


2) Eroticism

3) Experience

Simplicity: This refers to the ‘actions' of the God-given tools present in the male and female, that is, the PENIS and VAGINA respectively. Obviously, sexuality is one of the essential qualities of a man. Therefore, the ‘simplified indicator' a man uses to simply demonstrate his Male Acted Name is his reproductive PENIS.Creatively, the PENIS can be analyzed as the


E-Erection (Extension)


I-Instrumental (for)

S-Sex.On the other hand, it takes the consent of the Worth Of A Man's Worth, the woman for sexual intercourse to be complete. Similarly, the ‘device' she uses is her VAGINA. Therefore, the VAGINA can be creatively seen as the


A-Area, (the)





Eroticism; Sex is erotic in nature. Eroticism is the factor responsible for the ‘actions' of the instrumental-for-sex male and female devices. Simply, it is the factor responsible for the simplicity nature of sex.The term EROTIC can be analyzed as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry. Precisely, it is a force that causes the dynamic action of the male and female ‘tools'. Also, EROTICISM can creatively be seen as the Erogenous Reaction Observed Through Individual Chemistry, (the) Initiated Sex Motion.

Experience: This is product that results after the ‘coming together' of Simplicity and Eroticism. There are two kinds of experiences that reflect the inclinations of people towards sex.They are So Exciting Experience and Simply Exciting Experience. The former has to do with sexual freedom: seeking for sexual gratification by involving different people to the act at different times and spaces while the latter involves a limiting the number of partners engaged. Better yet, people whose sexual inclination reflects on the kind of experience exercise faithfulness instead of promiscuity and are less likely to contract diseases, feel insecure and doubtful and will have a better sense of sexual judgment.

Therefore, it is advisable to appreciate sex at the discerned time, marriage by adopting the habit chastity, though it involves hard work on your part. But considering the long-term benefits, it certainly worth the effort.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward

First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘postulation of the sex arithmetic'. This is a postulation which is intended to be a theory. Basically, it is a ‘computable' equation which explains or depicts s generally the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender have engaged in sexual intercourse before marriage. Precisely, the ‘computable' equation has 13 interpretations which represent the sex lives of different individuals

At this juncture, the proof authenticating the potency of the intended theory will have to be shown. In this case, we take as case study Individual A. The validity of this equation is dependent on the following statements

1) It can be numerically determined if individual A can keep a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sexual activities.

2) It is dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged.

3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of 1. Note: ‘sex' refers to the direct physical relation between a man and woman

The ‘computable' equation which is a representation of the total number of times individual A(N) had engaged is: ,

N=No±N1±N2±N3±N4, where No represents the first_time sex experience had (with partner a, say), N1 represents the sex relations individual A had engaged in his or her subsequent relationships (with partners b, c,d, e , f… ), N3 represents the possible one-night stand/for-the-moment sex situations (with partners m, n, o, p…) and N4 represents the number of times individual A had engaged in sex with his or her would-be marital partner before marriage.

The interpretations are given as the following

1) N=No+N1+N2+N3+N4

2) N=No+N1+N2+N3

3) N=No+N1+N2

4) N=No+N1+N4

5) N=No+N2+N4

6) N=No+N3+N4

7) N=No+N1+N3

8) N=No+N2+N3

9) N=No+N1

10) N=No+N2

11) N=No+N3

12) N=No+N4

13) N=No

Secondly, ‘the way forward' refers to the consequences_ the varying degree of insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, chances of contracting diseases and others before and after marriage, proportional to the number of partners engaged. Obviously, it explains the ‘way outs' as abstinence, faithfulness and health caution as remedies to the various ‘entanglements', the interpreted sex lives

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict


About the book

Do you really want to know the true meaning of the word S-E-X? Are you ready to get yourself re-orientated about the dynamics of sex? Do you really want to know the science and art of sex? Have you ever pondered on the right appropriation of sex? To you, what is sex?
The book titled Come To Think Of It, Sex! Is a driven_ by_ inspiration interest which focuses on the true qualities of sex as the basis for its definition. It is pleasure _ filled, somewhat funny but posses didactic remarks on the appropriation of sex. It is a mini-sized book that has in its identity creatively designed chapters that give the reader not only a sense of appreciation but the urge to 'thirst' for more. The chapters in this book are designed such that they complemented each other. Its recognition is a 'pave-way' for the already-written-but-unpublished 'Postulation of the sex arithmetic and the way forward' which puts forward an intended theory, a 'computable' equation on the number of times individuals had engaged in sex before marriage and what likely happens to them thereafter.

It is a must-have, must-read and must-keep ageless guide which will be essentially useful to young adults. married people and growing teenagers(18 years of age, at least).Therefore,if you are 18 and above, this book is for you!
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Monday, May 23, 2011


n our today's world, there are certain statements we hear either from the mass media, our peers or other sources which have undoubtedly formed part and parcel of our mindset. As a matter of fact, information we listen to have over the years unequivocally eaten deep form the root of our growing years of childhood and youth to the stable period of adulthood. Consequently, these statements are saliently expressed and understood words of deception which have affected our dealings with people. Therefore, the need to ‘guard' ourselves form deceptions is at this point necessary. ‘What are the deceptions?' A question you may want to ask.

Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.

At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve' the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;

Deception 1: It is no big deal losing your virginity

Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness' of sex action by engaging different partners into it.

Deception3: The bad girls ‘get' or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)

Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting

Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.

Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married

Deception 7: Divorce is normal

Deception 8: Love is blind

Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.

Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.

Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.

In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict


About the book
n our world today, infidelity, acquisition of sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies,divorce, demise or break ups, separation or estranged situations, insecurity and doubt and many others have unequivocally plagued relationships and marriages existing amongst individuals_celebrities inclusive.The prominence of these ills is due to the psychological acceptance of certain blindfolds known as deceptions.

The classic, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against… sheds light on the negative effects of eleven major deceptions as they affect the unions of individuals with their spouses,in relationships and marriages, using a "let us face it" approach by sighting true life stories and situations.Also,it gives lasting solutions to those seeking for the recuperation of their relationships and marriages, though dependent on choice.

It is aimed at specifically ensuring that healthy, blissful and enduring relationships and marriages are maintained, amidst the apparent cancerous spread of these ills.

Moreover,to growing youths, especially teenage men and women, who are currently not involved in serious relationships or married but aspire to be in a union with their spouses in future, this ageless masterpiece educates them on the inevitable truths associated with successful and healthy relationships leading to marriage by "preaching" to them their relevance:the right start to kick against the eminence of thriving blindfolds or deceptions.

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To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what they see.

Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.

To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil' them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?

Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?

Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get' their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit' to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?

To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict


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Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?

The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality

It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
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To be honest, what do you really know about your woman? What information do you have about her background: her past experiences, her present interests and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think you are the right woman for him? In the first place, what attracted him to you?

Generally, in the world we live, there are three basic things that attract people money: (property), sex, religion (spirituality). This is irrespective of gender. In this case, however, our gaze is fixed on the female gender.

First, women arguably get attracted to the world-recognized money in the form of material possession. One of the reasons many ladies get into relationships with men and possibly marry them is material possession, properties owned or for money sake. The question that arises is: When there is financial insolvency, would they hold on to their relationship status"? The answer to this question, unknown to some men, who believe their women truly loves them, has them not exercise a second-thought approach, regarding their ties with their so-called female lovers. Personally, on what ground is your woman involved in a relationship with or married to you-money or material possession? Think about it!

Besides, a factor which attracts young ladies into engaging in relationships with men is the issue of sex. If not truly chaste, it is a likelihood that a lady would have before the time she met her ‘beau', been engaged in several sex-linked relationships with different men. To an extent, she had engaged in failed ‘i-love- you' relationships and been ‘used and dumped' like a disposable syringe by her partners, all in the name of fruitless relationships. To be candid, is your woman sexually worth being faithful to?

Moreover, spirituality is a force that attracts people. As a matter of fact, this factor accounts for the reason a considerable number of women get into relationship and marriage-compatibility, expressed in terms of spiritual dedication. However, though arguable, some women ‘suspiciously' devote themselves to certain commitments in churches, mosques and other religious centers with an innate desire to ‘settle down' with their Mr. Rights. Once attained, they abscond! In all sincerity, what makes you think she is really serious with the recognized spiritual dedication you are involved in? Is she using this tool as bait to get herself ‘hooked' to you?

In a nutshell, the questions asked can be answered by the mentioned forces of attraction. Therefore, it's up to you to act now!

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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Do you know about her past experiences?How well informed are you about his past? Do you know his present dealings? What about her present condition or state? What do you know about her future plans? What is his stance about the future?

The masterpiece What you do not know about your woman, What you do not know about your woman explains certain facts that keep individual in the dark about their spouses and intends to fully enlighten them on what they should really know about their spouses, using three elements that attract people, irrespective of race, background or socio-political differences-sex, money/property and religion/spirituality

It is a 'not-without' to those who are in serious relationships and are married.
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Analogous to mid-wifery, Housewifery is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers or housewives an academic and professional ‘touch'. It is dedicated to aspiring wives, dedicated mothers and committed housewives. By extension, female celebrities can benefit from the come-to-stay Housewifery as it vividly tutors them how to strike a balance between stardom and call-to-duty home-keep.

Housewifery is a term which agrees that the home (a place where the where a family's recognition is resident) is essential for the continued peace and security of a nation. It is an interest that sees the home as the smallest unit or foundational block of nation building and pictures the woman as the home's ‘nucleus'. Hence, professionalizing and making academic Housewifery is worth considering.

Academic Housewifery is a curriculum-based recognition which has three major considerations: physical (economic, sexual) empowerment, mental empowerment and spiritual empowerment. Concerned experts; lecturers, academicians or practitioners will employ their wealth of experience on these forms of empowerment.

On the other hand, professional Housewifery is a recognition and appreciation of a nation's government incorporating it as one of the ministry of women affairs interest and portraying itself via awarding the most outstanding housewives. The awards given are a time-taken technical exercise devised by experts to evaluate the performances of housewives in various states, communities or localities.
Ponder on these; a true wife is a well-nurtured female or virtuous woman who has painstakingly taken her time to properly nurture herself to embrace patience instead of haste, humility instead of pride, kindness instead of hostility, sincerity instead of falsehood, transparency instead of hypocrisy, education instead of ignorance, spirituality instead of carnality, love instead of hate and fidelity instead of infidelity...

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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Akin to midwifery, it is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers a professional and an academic touch.

The classic explains the essence of the home and family as the microcosm of any stable society and the woman, a pivot of this unit.

Therefore, the neologism, Housewifery is a come-to-stay interest that has two identification,academic and professional Housewifery.

Institutes of home sciences and family studies and higher institutions offering any home-related science endeavours will find this development handy.

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More often than not, people, all around the world complain bitterly and assert the importance of their relevance to the state. However, if we are to critically look into the questions: ‘who is the government?' and ‘who are the people?', it can be said that the dynamics into the crucial nature of the asked questions are profound. Why?

Quite a number of individuals are of the view a government is an organized socio-political and economic body, consisting of people-elected persons, on-seat political representatives or to-the-throne monarchs and the general masses of a particular geographic entity. On the other hand, the people are seen as the masses that possess rights and obligations to their nations of citizenry. On the contrary, are these definitions potent enough to describe the government and people?

Believe it or not, the government, from the era of the supreme and great Babylonian empire to our present disposition, has been, is and will always be ahead of the people. How and why?

Consider this instance: You had in mind to go to a restaurant nearby, knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from in the waiter's menu, expenses to be incurred and the kind of cutleries to be used. Of course, you had gotten a picture of what to do at the restaurant based on the plans you have. The cutleries have no idea of being used to get started the eating process. Should there be inconveniences observed when using the cutleries, it would be reasonable of you to request that the waiter provide you another replacement.

This analogy explains the edge of the government has over the people. By analysis, the individual, that is, you, having in mind to go to a nearby restaurant to eat can be construed as the brainwork (intent) of the government to orchestrate certain agenda_politica, economical, social and so on to be executed or passed into law. ‘Knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from…' can be interpreted as government-set array of targets or goals that can be attained within the bounds of its sovereignty. The ‘cutleries' refer to the people. The ‘picture' pinpoints at the visualization of how realizable set government strategies are (analogous to the individual having in mind to eat at the restaurant). By implication, the cutleries, having no idea of being used to get started the eating process refers to the oblivion of the people towards the government's intended plans. Asking the waiter to replace the use of cutleries because of inconveniences observed means the government has the power to ‘replace' certain people who obstruct or impede the actualization of its objectives. The government is also ware of the sacrifice to be made or price to be paid to realize its goals. Hence, the phrase, ‘… expenses to be incurred…' ‘… The kind of cutleries to be used' simply refers to a set or group of individuals that will not only pose problems to governmental decisions and plans but will carry out to the letter its orchestrations. The food delicacy or combination refers to certain activities, dues, and other interests that the people are to offer; tax payment, productivity, civic duties and other domestic and professional expenses.

In all, the government is ahead of its citizens (subjects), courtesy of information advantage (similar to having in mind to eat at the restaurant and subsequent actions toward realizing it without the knowing of the cutleries!). Information advantage is originally of its own laid-down standards and appreciation of the quality of information, possessed by exceptional people in a ‘crowd' of masses by ‘specially' setting them aside to join its train of dominance thereby toting to its reservoir of ‘for-all-ages' quality information.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict


Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success

Ever wondered why the United States is undoubtedly one of the world's most successful business nations? Do you know why few individuals attain mega success, even in not-auspicious conditions while others realize a tip of their deserved iceberg? The answer is simple: it is in the demonstrated and not-considered Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success. What are they?

The following elucidates in succinct terms the seven irrefutable facts associated with business success.

1) Defining the orientation of the business: The most fundamentally important factor which is inevitable to business success; definition rather than ambiguity. Precisely, establishing business goals; vision and mission statements, aims and objectives are sine qua non, the catalyst starters of business success.

2) Knowledge Acquisition: In consonance with set business goals, reading related and up-to-date business materials; journals, articles, books and other forms of business-disseminated messages, information-consciousness, development of relational skills, relating with individuals in the same business arena; learning lessons from their experiences, their 'Dos' and 'Do-nots' approach to the business, strengths and weaknesses, seeking for inspiration that breathe intuition and ingenuity are facts associated with business success.

3) Maintaining a positive attitude: The decision to maintain a positive mindset is tantamount to consistency, focus, patience and persistence needed for the continued thriving of the defined business. Owing to certain information which are generally unfavourable, the need to keep a positive psyche becomes essential in order to achieve anticipated business success.

4) Taking calculated risks: Considering the level of knowledge acquired and set goals, success in business is unequivocally made possible by the risks taken. In business dynamics, the statement; 'leap before you look' is a motto of successful business men and women. However, a full grasp of acquired knowledge empowers successful business giants to take computed risks in the pursuit of progress in the businesses they engage themselves. No business enterprise have attained eventual mega success and continually thrived with paying the price, taking risks.

5) Minimizing losses and Maximizing profits: A follow-up to the embarked-upon calculated risks, understanding the core of business success lies in the ability to minimize losses and maximize profits. Granted, the essence of any successful business is to realize profit. At times, loss sets in. However, prioritizing maximized profits and limiting to the barest minimum losses are also essential to business success.

6) Taking responsibility for business actions: In the making of an entrepreneur or investor, a chief executive officer or a managing director, certain outcomes of business actions and decisions; low or high turn-over rates, profits or losses, surplus or deficit account reconciliations should be the responsibility of the would-be successful business man or woman, rather than taking excuses for lapses, blaming others for negative imbalances or being too self-concerned (taking credits for all positive business outcomes instead of acknowledging the efforts of others). Instead, through an organized win-win strategy in terms of demonstrating a relational carry-along disposition, business success can be fostered by accepting responsibilities as the business' 'watch dog' for any good or bad outcome and subsequently improving on it or providing its corrections via the co-operation of others.

7) Being investment-minded: This is a mindset, resident in the lives of individuals who want to experience mega business success; setting the pace for others to follow, trailblazers in the endeavours they engage themselves and role models for prospective business men and women. Of all kinds of existing business attachments (employee, self-employed, business owner and investor attachments), the investor attachment is the one whose success in relation to its advantages edge others; pays low taxes, very likely to escape the government debt bracket, gets richer and makes money do the working, permitting privacy to the concerned attaché.

Calvin Coolidge, a one-time U.S president once said: 'America's business is business'. Like the American dream, 'you can be anything that you want to be', as a (prospective) business man or woman, you can be the business success you are by considering and demonstrating these irrefutable facts.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict

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Have you considered the uniqueness of the number "7"? Believe it or not, the number "7" is apparently a mystery to some people in terms of its particular uniqueness but really a symbol of perfection. In a larger picture, the right inevitables are the perfected "7" recognition, that is, the seven irrefutable Facts Associated with Business Success. Simply, the difference between successful and non-successful ones is the ability to carefully consider and demonstrate the Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated with Business Success. Without a doubt, the U.S has over the years recognized the perfected "seven" recipes necessary for continued thriving and advancement of every business endeavours, a simple statement of business success.

• This must, have-read must-use and should-be-carried-along guide will be useful to students offering courses related to business, professional business men and women, business consultants business administrators and managers, academics in the colleges or faculties of business sciences, many business school, aspiring business men and women, upcoming business person still-striving-to-be-successful business individuals and idea-seeking business individual.

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